What’s your advice?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy at uni he’s in my classes and we have been texting for 4 weeks already and a few times talked in class but not much. There still hasn’t been a first date and when l confronted him on his intentions he said it’s really not the right time he just got out of a long term relationship 2 months ago. He sends me red hearts and asks about my day over text but his replies are short and l wait 24 hrs for a response normally 2 texts per day from him. And when l did fully ignore him he would be upset at uni and down and his friends would contact me asking what’s going on. I’m not sure how to go along with this because I feel like he’s wasting my time and when l do ignore him he gets upset but l don’t feel like a priority to him. As he’s always on his phone and online and there’s no effort on his end. He texts everyday it’s just 2 texts a day. In the 4 weeks of texting l still don’t know him well at all

[Anonymous]

He's wasting your time.

I mean I could give him the benefit of the doubt as I understand heartbreak and being gunshy. But you flat out confronted him on this. Did he apologize? Did he say he'd try to do better? Did he improve at all? Because your feelings are as important as his. And broke heart or not if he doesn't think so then you're not missing anything.

[spartan55]

He doesn't see any effort from you so why should he give any? Confronting him about 'intentions' was very ill timed on your part, and might have put him off..

[strateguy632]

he is wasting your time. just block him and if he complains say "you already said you are not interested."