If true love don’t exist do I settle for a guy I don’t like?

[Anonymous]

I’m 27 and never had a boyfriend , never had guy say feelings call me his girlfriend, invite me to family parties, holidays, trips with me , nothing.

guys just talk to me and act like a boyfriend but never want do anything serious like a normal boyfriend. I don’t do hookup or friends with benefits so that’s why I’m alone.

I think only way get a boyfriend is to settle to a guy that I don’t like.
I love guys but they don’t love me back.
it’s difficult segtle for a boy I don’t fancy as I don’t desire text them back at all, and feel no butterflies, no smile on my face.

I loved one guy at my job but we didn’t exhange numebrs last year and we got fired and now we are hired back but I don’t see him at job cuz we have different schedules and work in different areas and i think I saw him once Sep but I didn’t recongize him as he hides his face with a mask hiding his whole face.
then each time I like a guy another girl talks to him fast and it seems other girls win me all the time. 😓

[ɹǝʇʇɐɥpɐW]

I think love is learned. So, sure, pick a guy who seems okay and even if he doesn't really fit your "type" give him a shot. Spend time with him. Get to know him. Look for things to love. You'll probably find them if you choose to. He won't be perfect, but no one is.

That's not saying you should just stick it out with anybody. If someone is actually awful, then yeah, drop them. But I don't think there's anything wrong with lowering our expectations if we're not finding someone we instantly click with. "Love at first sight" and "the only one for me" is really just a romance movie thing. Not exactly realistic or healthy.

[Anonymous]

Don't settle. What decent guys want is probably what girls want, to feel safe to approach, to not be hurt or humiliated. F-boys and friends with benefits types are confident or don't care because they have no feelings except for their dicks, regular guys are thinking she's attractive, of course she has a boyfriend, or that they are not good enough for her, that she'd laugh at him. Without being desperate, let a guy know that you are into him. Drop lots of hints.

[ChicoFromThe305]

It does exist, it's just unpredictable, you give people chances and they might just surprise youre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Asker]

It don’t exist cuz I felt that guy at job like my soulmate and we keep being separated and unable be together.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I said unpredictable anon 😂

If you feel like that person is your soulmate then that's not unpredictable and it's most likely not your soulmate as you can tell by the results, you'll most likely not expect it, for all you know, you might have already met him, it's not something you can or should expect like you think you can ha.

[Ariesman81]

You felt attraction... not love

[Asker]

@Ariesman81 I felt love.

[TheCoffeeisHot]

No, true love wouldn't be a product of you settling for a guy you don't like. True love would be waiting and being patient till you find the right guy for you

[Enes38]

True love exists, it just comes along at the right timere-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Enes38]

True love exists, it just comes along at the right time

[Enes38]

Rest assured, you are not the only one waiting for true love.

[Anonymous]

Another reminder of what you don't expect for women

[Anonymous]

No. Because the guy doesn't deserve that.

[Masticophis80]

You should never settle!