Dating

Is he just keeping me warm for the future?

I started talking to this guy well over a month ago. In the beginning we talked a lot and he told me he wants me and we’re on the same wavelength all the time. We both agreed on a physical relationship since neither of us wants to have something serious. I told him he’s basically the first guy I would ever do stuff with and well he really liked that. It died down pretty fast though and then I reached out and asked him if this is still happening. He said yes and nothing changed about his feelings. We used to have a snapchat streak but he ended it after 13 days and my attempts to rebuild it failed. Sometimes he reached out but it was mostly me starting the conversation and keeping it alive. We live pretty far away (100km) so we agreed on a date where I even would’ve come to his place. He cancelled last minute because of work which was a bit sad because I told him before we can postpone but he said it’s fine. I got angry at him at some point and told him that I think his actions don’t match his words. He said he’s gonna be busy for the next two weeks and I just accepted it. He then texted me and asked when I’m free, so we set a date again. He didn’t reach out anymore so I asked him 2 days before the meeting if it’s still happening and he never replied to that message but only sent a “hey”. I confronted him again and then apologised a day later which he then did reply to and apologised saying that his life is a mess right now but he still wants to meet me and he still wants me in general. I only told him to reach out when he’s less busy and we haven’t spoken since. I actually don’t understand him at all. I don’t see a point in keeping me because I’m not giving him anything and we also can’t just meet within 5 minutes. Is he genuinely interested and just might be scared to meet up or is he just playing games?

Is he just keeping me warm for the future?
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