Have you ever stopped seeing someone because their place was way too messy or dirty?

[Still-alive]

You thought they were cool and attractive until you finally see their place and find that they are living in a pig sty pretty much. ever stop seeing someone over that?

Yes i have

No i haven't but if i did it would be a deal breaker for me

No i haven't and its not a factor that would get me to stop seeing someone

[desidoll]

No, because when I was dating (before I get married), most of my exes seem to avoid bringing me to their place which I kinda knew why. Matt hired two cleaners to come before I moved here lol but I was still furious the first time I saw the condition of his entire house. Now it has started to look better, but there are still things that need to be organised. We are planning to change the carpet and do a little of floor refinishing soon.

[Still-alive]

nice lol

[Beckybooboo]

Thankfully I've never experienced anything that drastic. I did date a guy that had a really nice SUV but it was a total mess! That irked me a little lol I spent a while cleaning it with him, hoping it would stay that way but after a week, it was a total mess again. Not worth breaking up over, I'm a good cleaner and would see it as a challenge!

[zagor]

No, but I can see why people would. Once I was going to a rock concert with a friend and his friend, and we stopped by the friend-of-a-friend's house so he could change clothes. We waited for him at the kitchen table, and there was a dog dish in the kitchen with roaches swarming all over it, and the whole place stunk. It was a place shared by several guys in a local band.

[valentina4eva]

thankfully i’ve never been in this situation before😲😲 absolute deal breaker!!😨😵😵

[Still-alive]

Thankfully i keep my place pretty tidy heh ;)

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

In my experience there is some correlation between the state of our place and ourselves lol. I'm not fan of total chaos nor total order, I'll just go with the vast possibilities in-between. That'll be fine 🙂

[purplepoppy]

The Trump flag in that picture says so much.

Here's a tip for parents. Get a girl to say she's coming around for a quickie. He'll tidy his room in 5 minutes flat.

[menina]

That never happened to me. However, it would be a deal breaker for sure and I would stop seeing him.

[msmissydc]

There is like trash hanging on the wall. EW! the sofa is tue next worse thing. Yeah this would be a dealbreaker.

[goaded]

Especially on the left!

[Paul09]

I mean I admit im very disorganized and can be messy. But leaving garbage and dirt everywhere I can not. Also if someone is interested in me. m, I'm Trying my best to clean up and "organize" or just put in away in Boxes.

[petitedollbabee]

It wasn’t the sole reason why I stopped seeing him, but it was 1/3 of the reason.

[call_me_scar]

Not at all when I was kid I went over a friend's house a lot and literally every inch of there floor was covered in something

[DrPepper12]

Do children count? Like does turning 18 count as an official breakup?

[LiamJHayden]

I haven't, but I'm a clean freak and that would end it for me.

[Wiredone]

No I haven't yet but I would break up with her

[scott04sa22]

A messy place can keep the ladies from bay