Do women overlook red flags or does the guy switch up in regards to women becoming single mothers?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Women overlook red flags primarily. I mean I understand if a woman is green as grass to dating and she make the mistake of falling for a guy who playing on "expert" level. But that's still no excuse for her ALLOWing him to impregnate her. And even more so there is ABSOLUTELY no excuse from not learning from dating such a guy.

One thing you'll find with single moms is they generally repeat the same mistake over and over again failing to learn from it. Which I one of the biggest reason self respecting men do not wife them up.

[Asker]

Valid points. Can you elaborate on why no "self respecting" men will not wife a single Mom?

[Opinion Owner]

I thought I just did? She's a single mom. She's already proven her poor decision making. And I get it, this always misses single moms off. Because they don't like thinking of developing feelings for an obvious dud as being a mistake. And this is generally why they fail.

[Opinion Owner]

Pisses* not misses.

[Opinion Owner]

Most will never even acknowledge where she went wrong. This is why they repeat the same failure again and again.

[Asker]

I understand what you're saying. I think you're missing when a mother gives birth she deals with something called postpartum. What I discovered is that it runs a lot of guys away because they don't know how to deal with that.

[Dkc123]

They get what they crave.. I don't take their complaints seriously cuz I've realised females just want complain n cry deep down they enjoy emotional roller coaster..

[Asker]

Are you saying single mothers intentionally pick bad baby fathers?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Both tbh. A lot of lonely women will settle for mediocre men and a lot of even worse men will pretend to be better men just to have a girlfriend