Is it okay to feel resentment if your actions in the relationship aren’t reciprocated?

[HawkPerception]

Yes

No

[Finchie40]

Yes, if you are constantly giving without receiving , that can definitely make you resent your partner, You are best to have a sit down talk with them and tell them how you feel and express your feelings of concern , if they make no effort to improve the relationship, then you are best to walk the other way

[MicahRaine]

I think that if your actions aren't being reciprocated you should have a conversation about it ASAP the moment you notice. Why wait for it to build into resentment and then cause bigger issues?

[AmandaYVR]

'Actions' is vague and nonspecific.

The obvious answer to this seems yes. You strip away all details to get to the root. But the root, the details matter.

Answer: Yes. And, it depends.

Consider expectations. Then the real conversation begins.

[chrissykerdock]

not really i gave many blowjobs where it wasn't recipicated and i was fine with that as i do enjoy giving a blowjob

[Yannae]

Not if you haven't communicated clearly. And if it's something the other doesn't like... yeah good luck

[Graptemys79]

You can't help your feelings. That is not the same as those feelings being rational.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That’s a very valid feeling

[McLlovin]

As long as you communicate how you feel

[karlainsd]

Over time I think it will build up

[Dongie]

Yep!