How do women who are reserved and stoic get into relationships?

[Anonymous]

It seems like men only go for the outgoing, bubbly women.

[MysticDevice]

Not this guy. I've been waiting to meet an introverted stoic quiet women who was dragged out by her extrovert friends who adopted her.

I always avoid the loud ones at any gathering. I'll go sit with the quiet ones every time. If there were any, that is.

[Anonymous]

You wait your turn. And if that turn never comes, it never comes.

Guys don't prefer outgoing, bubbly women. Outgoing, bubbly women simply put more effort in.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Most folks can tell when you’re faking that bubbly, outgoing personality. These women don’t do that. Their sincerity is attractive

[Asker]

Oh, I don’t fake the bubbly, outgoing personality (at all). It’s not my thing lol

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Okay, so don’t worry then lol

[Abbycado]

They have to find a similar guy to them. Outgoing and bubbly makes it easier because we are more social fun.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I think it just depends on their type.. :) I'm reserved, but get approached quite a lot.

[Asker]

I get approached a lot as well, but I think men or bored or put off by my reserved nature and stoic demeanor.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

They give up since they know you won't play with their silly mind games, which is actually a good thing. 😉👍 Easier to know the ones who are actually serious.

[Joshua_H_1010011001]

I think the cat is out the bag that's all.

Most women get approached a lot / get male attention.

10% of men experience this.

The rest of us don't, we live a life of relative isolation and silence... especially regarding women.

And I think now due to the internet, men know this.

So why would I want to approach and give my time to a girl that's had 30 guys give her attention this week... To what try and "win" her.

Personally, I don't like to be regarded as an option, and that's how I feel when I see most women now.
Even if I'm top of the list and im the "winner"... Like seriously... Fuck that shit.

I know it's not all like that, and you can have eyes only for one man, and that's what we / I am looking for also.

But i just find that it's hard to get over that first assumption, that stops me approaching girls that I like, or responding to one's who like me.
Because... What's the point if your only an option.

Needs to be 1to1, chemestry, eyes only for me and no one ells.

You have all the options,. amd we know it.

So you need to demonstrate that you have given them up for the one you want to be with.

Men have aot to lose with modern laws, marriage, family law, false aligations etc etc... There's not a lot to "win" like in back in old days lol

Not that it's a "bad" thing, just the dynamic has changed and we need to adapt.

In 2024, women arnt worth it on paper. You need to break the mould and show the positives.

Being stoic and reserved is good, prob just needs a sprinkle of something.

[Loki97]

I wish I could speak on it but you’re options are already slim.

[In_Trance]

The same way all other women do it just takes them longer