Agree Or Disagree: Females Find Attraction More Important Than Men Do?

[Finchie40]

I agree , prove me wrong

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Females’ find attraction more important than men do

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I was a little buzzed when I wrote this question , please forgive me lol

[Summeroflove]

It depends on the woman that’s for sure. Good women who have a good heart who are able to build genuine connections do care about it a lot and so do men who have a genuinely good heart. Good people aren’t going to string someone along they aren’t attracted to BUT…. BUT….

There is dark personalities narcissists, psychopaths, sociopaths, and others. People who are unable to make natural and genuine connections. They don’t have natural affection for others for most people it would be even icky to be with someone you’re not attracted to. But for these people at best is transactional that’s best case scenario most are one sided. Don’t get me wrong a relationship should be both people contributing something to the other what people are looking for is different.

But a good person will be honest about what they are looking for. They don’t want to waste their time and they certainly have enough respect for the other person not to waste theirs. But these people who are dark personalities many times have to conceal their true intentions.

See there is people who are just addicted to sex. It’s not meaningful to them. They like doing kinky, taboo, and even disgusting acts. It’s just about getting their rocks off to them. There is people looking for money and all sorts od other stuff. Some of these people are more overt but there are some very covert evil people out there.

So as for good people genuine attraction matters. But for people who aren’t good decent human beings you gotta watch out. Not all men or women are the same.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Disagree. There are way more couples where the guy is average at best and the woman is gorgeous than couples where the guy is good looking and the woman is average looking

[itsannalee]

For the first glance yes, women will only be interested in men who they consider attractive, then after that will approach to see the personality sometimes. But also there are some women who don’t care about it and ignore red the flag. Because most women will only sleep with men who they are interested in, but men can sleep with women they can get.

[Summeroflove]

Well it depends on the men and women. There are women who have sex for sport… it’s not all women by any means. But some hide it better then men.

Also, there are people of dark personalities who aren’t able to make genuine connections. They are looking for sex. Money. Other things od that nature and will fake genuine attraction.

For good people they would never do that but good people need to be aware of it too

[itsannalee]

It’s still they would look on the men appearance. That’s why most men struggle on the dating app, because most women only swipe right for men they attracted to. And most men randomly swipe right and chat with any girl who has potential to hookup with.

Not all but mostly.

[Crimsyjo]

I heard a guy say before that a man hooking up lowers his standard of attraction but wants a higher standard for a partner. And that women are opposite. For hook up go for higher standard but will drop points on looks in favour of personality etc for a relationship.

I can agree with that totally!

[sage2021]

Since it's a well known fact that men are very visual creatures I would have to say men go for physical attraction more.
Women are physically attracted to the guy but we tend to look beyond that first and look for other redeeming qualities he has that make us fall for him.

[Dongie]

That makes sense to Ying and yang.

[emeraldsaphire]

"females and men" off to a great start :P I do think women tend to be more selective them men do. So there might be some truth to this, But I don't think most men or women will sleep with someone they don't find attractive in some way.

[PeachyPie93]

Women go by face.. men go by body.. its usually that simple.

[chrissykerdock]

how can you generalize when there;s so many people out there if i say yes there's tons who will disagree it's more about what you think or want

[Finchie40]

Not generalizing , just asking a question , it just seems females’ have higher standards then most men do , Most females’ will leave a good man for another man that makes more money or has higher status , where most men don’t care about that shit when it comes to a beautiful girl that he is interested in in, he doesn’t care about how much money she makes or what kind of car she drives , all he wants is her to love and respect him the same way he loves and respects her , he wants to feel wanted by her , and appreciated by her , not compared or belittled to other men. If she keeps him satisfied and happy he more than likely won’t cheat on her

[chrissykerdock]

anytime you say females your generalizing but i know what you mean i don't think you'll have any trouble finding a girl to love you

[Finchie40]

Thanks for the compliment beautiful, I am flattered that you think that, but until i find a girl that only wants me and loves me like I love her and want her for the long haul and not the short haul then I guess my troubles will be over 😊

[chrissykerdock]

thank you always made me feel good and gave me some hope i really don't doubt you will

[Finchie40]

I don’t doubt you will either 😘

[chrissykerdock]

i don't think i'll ever be healthy i was in the hospital on Friday

[Finchie40]

Aww I’m sorry to hear that, I pray you get better ❤️

[chrissykerdock]

thank you no hard feelings

[Paige90]

I agree! Females want looks and personality. Guys just want a hole to do!

[Finchie40]

LOL it’s more than just a hole to do , Most men just want a girl that stays loyal and faithful to him , that doesn’t cheat that doesn’t disrespect him in any way , he wants to feel safe with her hole lol Yes her looks are important to him as well , but it’s not the number 1 thing he wants from her , her personality and the way she treats him is a big deal to most of us men , Most of us men just want to feel wanted and valued by her and respected , we don’t select girls’ based off her job , or what car she drives or how much money she makes , if he does? , he isn’t a man , he is just some snooty asshole that was born with a silver spoon in his hand. But a genuine guy doesn’t need those things for him to be attracted to a girl. . Where Most females’ ’ on the other hand do? Most females’ will leave a good man for a guy that makes more money or has more status then her partner does. Which sadly destroys a guy inside because if he chose her and valued her no matter what and she turns around and blind sides him , he sadly becomes a broken man to the point his trust for females’ can go out the window , Most guys’ value commitment more than females’ do. Where Most females’ value status and money over valuing his heart. Females’ will say her man is insecure and doesn’t trust her and yes that can be true but the main reason a guy comes off as jealous and insecure is because she isn’t respecting him the same way he is respecting her. Most men will cheat on a girl or leave a girl that constantly disrespects him and makes him feel she doesn’t truly love him and value him , He more than likely won’t cheat on her if she respects him and doesn’t withhold intimacy and affection from him consistently, Most of us guys’ just want to feel wanted and respected by her

[Paige90]

Bottom line - Guys will fuck anything with a hole!

[Finchie40]

Not all guys’ but yea there are guys’ that would

[Anonymous]

No way guys go for looks. I can appreciate a good-looking guy but I don't go chasing them down the street.

[Apple1996]

Some women do care more about looks then men do. It just depends

[Finchie40]

I love you , you understood my question lol

[Apple1996]

💕 I read the update haha

[GoodEnoughThen]

I don't understand the title of this post. Can someone please fix the grammar, if there is an issue, and repost. If no issue, my apologies. Thank you. -Influencer

[GoodEnoughThen]

Buzzed... ha, gotcha. :)

[Peridot25]

Doesn’t that go for everyone though? I mean, I don’t think anyone would go out with someone if they’re not attracted to them.

[msc545]

This isn't even a reasonable or discernible question. Try rewriting it so it actually can be read and it means something.

[oldpigg]

The value of a woman depends solely on her beauty and youth, the value of a man does not.

[Crimsyjo]

Aww so sad. I understand you have that view if u are the age u say growing up surrounded by the social media that promotes youth and beauty as everything and the young women stressed and depressed at trying to achieve and compete for it.

[oldpigg]

I don't use social media, but I agree that a woman's value depends solely on her beauty and youth.

[Crimsyjo]

I disagree with that concept. Is your mother no longer valuable because she isn't youthful any more? What counts as youth? If you a have children with a woman in her 20's is she to be thrown on the street at 25 because she's no longer young or as beautiful as the next 18 year old? Even tho she be mother of your children?
Most men value a woman as someone who takes care of them.

[Anonymous]

It is like you only posted half the question here.

[Finchie40]

No , attraction is more important to females’s than men find attraction important

[Tomisworthless]

They care about base level, you need to be at minimum a 7/10 for your personality, interests, career etc to be considered

[Love2Watch]

Huh?

would u repeat the question again in English this time.

[Finchie40]

Drink a few beers , you might understand it lol

[Kingofkings1992]

[WhitneySnow]

I disagree. I think it’s the reverse.

[Lottydotty]

Not in my case.

[Crazzyyworld]

Oh yeah manwhore