Do you think this is a key difference between men and women when it comes to being attracted to one another? ?

[Anonymous]

It changed my mindset, perspective a lot, here is the quote:

"A man doesn't need to respect a woman in order to be or feel attracted to her, but a woman needs to respect a man in order to be or feel attracted to him".

Do you think there is any truth to that statement?

[VyacheslavSokolov]

Guys usually think a woman wants money or looks when she is looking for a guy, but that is not it. It is status. Money and looks can mingle along with status, but usually the thing woman is looking for is status. Which is why see women who have fetish for guys who are serial killers. They see the crazy killer all over tv or the news and they think "Omg he is so cute" and sent him love letters and get married to the guy in jail.

And same reason why some women fall for gang members again they gain status from it. An ugly fat bald guy who is broke, but has something that community values and is looked up to be for being a nice guy or charitable man can have the status to attract a woman which is why see women with ugly guys. They might not have the most status, but they have enough to attract a mate.

Women will leave a guy not for more money, but a guy who has more status. A woman can be with a guy who is a millionaire with a lot of status in her community, but she won't cheat on him with a multi-millionaire who is just a trust fund baby because he did not earn his more or status and no one really values anything he does in her community.

It is not he money that makes the pussy tingle. again looks, money, and status can mingle with each other, but it is usually the status that women seek out the most.

[Anonymous]

Attractions has no relation with respect. Be it for a man or for a woman.

Men get attracted mostly because of the outer look. While women get attracted by seeing the power, dominance or hiarchy of that man.

Attraction is just some kind of power or energy that doesn't need any kind of logical reasoning. It just happens when it's there.

Loving someone needs respecting them first, not the attraction.

[DishLady]

I think that about says it all...

[Nikki1989]

Respect should go both ways. This is utter crapola.

[NathanDavis]

that's bullshit nonsense... lol