Answer: there is none. It depends on the situation, location, clothing, reason or how your first meeting happened.
If she is standing in front of you (back towards you):
- could be her butt, could be her legs, could be her back, could be her pale skin (if you can see it), could be her voice that you hear, could be her size
Is she is is standing in front of you
- could be just her cleavage, could be her breasts, could be her face, could be her eyes, could be her Hair, could be her lips, could be her legs, could be her freckles, could be her voice that you hear, could be her size
If she is sitting next to you (like a friend or someone who just took the seat next you while you where looking on the phone)
- could be just her cleavage, could be her breasts, could be her face, could be her eyes, could be her Hair, could be her lips, could be her ears, could be her pale skin, could be her freckles, could be her size, could be her voice that you hear
If she is wearing a thick winter clothing
- could be her legs, could be her small or large feet, could be her size, could be her hands (if they are the only thing visible), could be her face, could be her hair (unless it's under a knitted cap/winter cap), could be her freckles, could be her eyes
It depends
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3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. It happens so fast for me. I go straight to the eyes as I scan the whole face still looking into the eyes then I listen to The voice because I want to know who they are in the inside.
And even though I'm looking into this person's eyes on paying more attention to what the eyes are saying to me and the voice at the same time because I want to know their heart who they are how smart they are how wise they are how beautiful of a heart do they have can they smile are they happy.. . And it might take me another hour sometimes even a day or two and one day I'll look at that same person and I'll say wow I never noticed they're absolutely beautiful but that's also because I found out who they truly were on the inside too00 Reply
1 yDepends on which way we're facing and our body shape. For the girls men findmost attractive it's boobs or ass but really waist to hip ratio that are an indicator of youth and high fertility. Shape of face, too, for similar reasons.
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1 yI'd have to say that just naturally it would be the face first!
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1 yIt often depends what the woman is wearing. Could be her legs, cleavage or something else. Ultimately, though, we guys look at her face and eyes. Eyes are the gateway to a woman's soul.
30 Reply 3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Her face and eyes and lips and hair first then her body then her personality , if they all check ok , then I will more than likely flirt with her and see where it goes
20 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. On her face? Her eyebrows, if they're thick. Thick eyebrows are sexy.
On her body? Her boobs, if they are big.
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1 yGeneral health to be honest. I mean you can tell if she's a drug or substance abusing addled druggie... or a cupcake abusing foodtard. The first scan of a person in general, not just women, is what it is.
I mean if she's so fucked up that I can convince a black guy, two Mexicans, and a Muslim woman with a Hijab on to beat her ass... as a white guy... she's probably all fucked up and deserves what she fucking deserves.

Bitch is trash already Jesus look at me. I don't even have a real person to attack and I'm just destroying this imaginary woman. She's so poor that she buys food with stolen food stamps. The missing teeth are not for no reason.
Yo... post this question again with a person's picture and tag me.
10 ReplyThe emotions coming out of her eyes are the first thing. Then there is the face and overall body language and dressing style.
If you are asking only about the lizard brain, meaning the purely physical body, then obviously my gaze will go to the more exposed parts of the body, especially the breasts. But then how smooth and red her skin is, how healthy her nails and hair are. It is true, that men look at women from the point of view of whether she is healthy enough to bear offspring or not.15 Reply- 1 y
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@blackeagle007 Not from my side, she was just upset with my answer, I didn't argue, I just blocked her
Honestly, I think the first thing I notice about a woman is her eyes. There's just something about a beautiful pair of eyes that grabs my attention. A great smile is a close second, though. I mean, when a woman's got a smile that lights up the room, it's hard not to notice. But if I'm being totally honest, it's usually the eyes that catch my eye first. There's something about the way they sparkle or the shape of them that just draws me in. And then I start to notice other things, like her hair, her face, her body... but the eyes are usually what get my attention initially.
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1 yDepends which way they’re facing😝
For me, frontally, probably just their face in sum total. Maybe eyes or smile if we’re getting more specific.
If approaching from the rear…

I mean, can I be real?😅 10 Reply - 2.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.
1 yIf from afar and the body is the first thing we can see the figure. The petiteness or not of the torso and the butt, the ratio from torso to hips/butt to the legs.
If it is a closer first impression, like meeting her, the health of the skin, her eyes, the shape of her face, her hair.
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yFor me, it's her waist. Skinny keeps my attention. Then, it's a quick face check for age, then it's butt.
The exception would be if there's a camel toe showing. It's automatically an attention drawer. Good or bad. Attractive or not attractive.
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Opinion Owner1 y@Nikki1989 no, I'm the reason women put in so much effort to draw attention from strangers. Just like you do. Even when in a relationship. Disgusting of you all.
Opinion Owner1 y@Nikki1989 and studies show that women want attention more than ever. Because so many guys have started ignoring them.
1 yNow that 41 states have abortion bans in effect, I look at her hips. She's got to be able to pop out about 10 strong Republican children.
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Too bad nature gets a vote
I have severe social anxiety and have trouble making eye contact with people even my own family so for me the first thing I see of pretty much everyone is their legs because I'm always looking slightly down when I'm walking.
10 ReplyDepends what your wearing and what way your facing lol. If your back is towards me I'm going to notice your legs and ass first from the front if your dressed casual probably look at you from face scrolling down through your tits waist and legs. Now if you have say skirt or something on probably legs first, swimsuit probably tits and ass then face. Will you notice me not looking directly at you probably lol
11 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Symmetry is what the mind perceives as attractive in an “inexplicable way”
The first thing we all see right before we zero in on the details that we consciously chose to be attracted to10 ReplyEyes, the shape of her mouth, the way her hair falls over her face, the sound of her voice.
All the rest is secondary, but not unimportant.
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1 yThe overall face.. I don't scan random people, so I get a quick glance.. If, I get a good enough look... Maybe some other features like the hair, and lips, and the eyes.. Anything that pops out really..
10 Reply 18.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. It really depends if the man has some class or is just a typical garden variety pervert.
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1 yEyes & face since that is what people usually see up close.
10 Reply Boobs. Followed by her overall physical health. So a landwhale with FFFF boobs who weights 900 lbs gets zero attention from me.
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1 yAssuming she's not wearing a mask, it's her face.
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Anonymous(30-35)1 yThere is no single answer to this because every man is different. And for me personally, what catches my attention can be different from woman to woman because every woman is different and each has things that make her uniquely attractive.
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1 yReally depends on the woman. Could be long beautiful hair, big boobs, wide hips with narrow waist, nice butt or even just the hypnotic movement of it, her neck, legs, etc.
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1 yOf course I try my best to always be polite and will therefore hopefully notice her facial features first, but let's say there are two female special features a little further down which I just can't ignore
10 Reply683 opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends on the guy. Me, I notice her eyes first, then her mouth.
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1 yBody type/figure.
Boobs.
Face.
In that order20 Reply - 1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.
1 yDepends on at what angle I'm seeing her. But eyes are generally what I notice first. I'm a sucker for gorgeous eyes.
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1 yHer hairs, face, height are first few things I notice
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1 yOverall "balance" in facial shape vs hair shape.
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1 yDepends... different features on different women. It's more like an art than a science.
10 Reply 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Honestly depends on the woman. Sometimes eyes and smile. Other times right to the thighs and ass.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yHonestly for me, everything. If I see her at a distance I’m taking it all in at once.
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1 yFace. Then body. I look at hairstyles too. A bob is super hot to me.
10 Reply I’m old fashioned: personality. Someone who isn’t self-centred, self-absorbed and vainglorious.
10 Reply370 opinions shared on Dating topic. depends on how conservatively she is dressed
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1 yDifferent men notice different things. For me, eyes and smile.
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yThe first physical feature I notice on a woman is her smile, a good smile is warm and inviting and it's a sign she's interested.
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1 yNot a guy but someone who’s attracted women. Her mannerism for me.
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yThe face of course, including hair, and eyes, then I usually notice legs, or the figure.
10 ReplyIt’s always facial features for me
There eyes!
The meaning and expressions10 Reply- 543 opinions shared on Dating topic.
1 yI notice...
.. I think u already know my answer10 Reply First things I notice is her face then hands
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u 1 yHer face.
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1 yFace. Frame of body. Eyes.
10 Reply 2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. her smile or lack thereof.
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1 yEyes ass and hips
10 Reply 2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. For me it's her eyes and face
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1 yher tits and ass
10 Reply6.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Everyone is different
10 Reply475 opinions shared on Dating topic. Theirs eyes, smile and hair.
10 ReplyMostly everything〽️🫧✨💢💫
10 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. The eyes tell the truth.
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1 yHer hair.
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1 yThere smile followed by breast and ass 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yI tend to notice spectacular breasts.
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1 yThe breasts.
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1 yHer face.
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1 yMe that thing behind her
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1 yThe eyes chico. They never lie... Then lips 🙃🙃
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yHair.. especially nice hair...
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Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yFace hair tits body thighs ass pussy
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1 yEyes or lips
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