Why do people think it’s weird 19 year old girl doesn’t have an boyfriend and is still virgin? Is this a red flag?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

No it's not a red flag it's actually kind of beautiful and respectful and I think it's very honorable and I think a lot of girls that know this girl probably kind of look up to her in a lot of different ways

Looking at it in a guy's point of view there's nothing wrong with it at all I actually kind of like it to a point in that point is no sex until marriage which would just be way too hard for me I lost my virginity when I was 16 and a half but

I have gone out with girls that are virgins and we had our own way of becoming one with each other without penetration and it was very beautiful thing it was actually better than sex really sometimes

AnonAndrew · Accepted Answer

To me virginity and "lifelong singleness" are a bit of a red flag, because I prefer women with a lot of sexual and relationship experience.

But there are plenty of guys who are ok with it, and 19 is still very young. It's unusual for a girl to still be a single virgin at that age, but not shockingly unusual. There are a fair amount of girls that age who are in the same position. :)

I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. There are a number of guys who are into virgins. Whether they are guys you'd want to be with is another story, but you won't have to worry about finding a guy because of this as long as you're at least somewhat decent-looking. :)

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Yeah… mega red flag… 19 and not spreading them for the highest bidder? Whoever heard of such a thing? Throw her to the wolves….

(Smh. Where did you come up with the idea of feeling ashamed for being a normal young woman? Just bc you’re surrounded by tramps doesn’t mean YOU are the abnormal one.)

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

why should it be weird or a red flag? do all people have to do everything at the same age? enjoy being yourself, and don't look for validation from others...

Anonymous · Answer

So many ways of having fun without having g intercourse or anal. There's dry humping. There's hj & bj for him, clit rubbing and finger banging for you. There's mutual masturbation. There's masturbating yourself while sucking him off. There's tittyfucking, basically you rub your boobs up and down the shaft of his penis until he cums, or he thrusts his penis in and out between your boobs until he cums. there's ass jobs, he can rub or you can twerk with his erection up against your butt or between the cheeks ( no anus penetration) until he cums. There's also cunninlingus for you.

Then there's thighjobs, you can put his erect penis between your thighs and let him thrust until he cums or you can move your thighs back and forth. You can do this in virtually any postion even wearing nylons or stockings or yoga pants if not bare skinned. If his penis is in the right postion it can rub up and down along your clit. An ex of mine like my yoga pants. Oh and you can also grind yourself on his thighs until you cum.

A favourite of mine is to get naked except for a little thong and rub baby oil all over him and me and rub my pussy up and down the shaft of his penis until he cums, facing him so he can see my boobs or facing the other way so he can see my butt.

In the old days our grandparents called this heavy petting, they did it to avoid having sex b4 marraige as it led to pregnancy and maybe they didn't want to marry each other just have fun.

Zack-Bann · Answer

At 19?
Nah that’s normal.

You’re still in the “barely legal” range anyway.
Don’t take the olympic competitor sluts from high school as a point of reference they’re not the majority of people.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

People today don't value or are blind to the value of purity, there's definitely people that are aware and seek it, it's not weird, you are also 19 which isn't far out of high school, sounds like a normal valid situation to me

conanbdetective · Answer

No it ain't weird. Don't fall for the pressure to just lose it. Save it for someone who'll make it worth remembering.

Valdemort · Answer

Is it really weird though? I don't know many people who would think that.

molonski2 · Answer

Extremely unusual.. Red Flag? Why? .. Up to the individual.

Anonymous · Answer

Meh, I'm much older than you and don't have a girlfriend, and I'm still a virgin.

Anonymous · Answer

If anything it's a green flag. To me it says you are looking for something specific which is good.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a 31 year old virgin. Top that

jahaims · Answer

It's not weird

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

They're nosy.

Predetor · Answer

Nonsense

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