Why do some people act like it’s a red flag a 18 year old girl can’t get a boyfriend and is still a virgin?

[Anonymous]

[HawkPerception]

Only idiots that are jealous (girls) would say that. Men prefer girls that don't sleep around.

I'll also add that even if you lose your virginity, it doesn't matter. Virginity is overrated and not a big deal. Only idiots would judge you for having lost it. Everyone makes mistakes in their lives. Sometimes your first partner or even second and third partners won't work out. That's just life. As long as you're not sleeping around with the intention of just fucking, then you'd be considered a classy girl to any guy with half a brain. A guy that wants commitment seeks a girl that has been looking for that in her life as well.

[Anonymous]

There’s absolutely nothing wrong w that. I’d actually commend you. A lot of girl’s these days are just giving it away. If anything it makes you more valuable to the opposite gender. What’s a red flag is a lady who is in her late 20s, almost 30 who’s still a virgin.

[Asker]

Why it’s a red if the woman in her late 20’s?

[Opinion Owner]

Because by that point a majority on women have been w someone, or they’re married w a child, or at least have a child. If she’s gorgeous, but she still hasn’t had a man swoop her up that means something is seriously going on w her that men don’t want her. Looks are a big thing to men. So when a girl is gorgeous, hasn’t been scooped up something is wrong.

[12karen]

It depends on where you are, some normalize sex before 18 and some don't. Stick to your choice, it's not a red flag at all, I would say you don't give up easily, that's a good thing in my opinion.

And being a virgin does not mean that you are not as attractive as others, it has nothing to do with appearance, I have seen very attractive girls but virgins and others, not as attractive but non virgin, it's just a question of choice and moral value.. Someone will love you for who you are and for the choice you make, if they think it's a red flag, they're the red flag.

[BarryLiverstone]

She’s right

[12karen]

Thank you

[Account]

Lol, I was you many many years ago.
No matter what you do you will be judged.
You should only do it when it feels right. Don't pressure yourself.
Fuck what other people think.
People would judge you even if you had sex, so it honestly doesn't matter.

[Account]

I understand completely by the way.
I didn't like anyone at that age enough to do that.

It is not a red flag though.

[Summeroflove]

Jealousy. Many of these people miss who they were when they were still innocent

[Berethor]

Because most girls nowadays are hos from a very young age, personally I respect virgins.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_consent

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Asker]

I have been disrespected for a virgin

[Asker]

I meant being a virgin not for typo

[Berethor]

Because most guys nowadays look for easy sex, traditional guys prefer virgin girls.

[Staximus]

It's not a red flag. Any girl can get a boyfriend if she tries. My high school had 4500 students, almost 1000 in my graduating class. The ugliest girl in my class had a boyfriend all through high school (2 different guys) because she tried and she stayed in her league.

[Kelley1]

If she can't get a boyfriend, most likely she can't get a top 1% guy and reject every other guy. Otherwise, a girl is oranges at the bottom of the basket if she can't get a boyfriend at age 18. Moreover, purity would be a plus.

[ProbablyClueless]

They just haven't lived enough life yet. After you've been around for a little while, you start to realize that anything under the Sun can stop you from having sex, and not having sex is often a smarter decision than having sex.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Those people who judge you for that.. they are the red flags.

[ChicoFromThe305]

It's not a red flag, if people kept their virginity at least til 18, the world would be a slightly better place

[lightbulb27]

Because they are immature idiots.

When someone asks this, asks how many unborn infants they've murdered.

[Klandestina]

Ignore such people, they are toxic. Don't change yourself for people, stay the way you are. Trust me there are many things I regret in life.

[RebelinSteel]

Because humans are really great at being stupid and judgmental.

[_Senorita_]

No this ain't a red flag you are precious girl you don't give yourself to random people

[BarryLiverstone]

May be an indication she’s not as attractive as her friends

[Asker]

I barely have friends

[BarryLiverstone]

Why don’t you have many friends?

[Asker]

Was sheltered

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh ya, I know how that feels. My parents sheltered me as well

[Asker]

I’m very lonely

[BarryLiverstone]

Have you made many friends recently? Having a boyfriend you would still be healthy with more friends

[Asker]

Nope

[BarryLiverstone]

Why not?

[Asker]

I’m still sheltered

[BarryLiverstone]

Then not a big deal to see red flags now right? If you are not allowed to date and are sheltered

[BarryLiverstone]

But obv if you choose the be a virgin that’s safest

[Asker]

My mom doesn’t want me having sex

[Asker]

If I get a boyfriend then she’ll accuse me of stuff I didn’t do

[BarryLiverstone]

So does that mean you are stuck or trapped. Or maybe you don’t like guys are ok with how your mom feels

[Asker]

I’m seeing a therapist because of her behavior driving me crazy

[Asker]

She’ll let me go places but she’ll accuse me of stuff I didn’t do

[BarryLiverstone]

Good luck with that

[Asker]

It sucks I try my best not to hurt her for her behavior

[BarryLiverstone]

Sounds complicated. I’m sure you love her but you also want to be an adult and make your own choices. Let me know if you wanna talk about it

[Asker]

I don’t love her

[BarryLiverstone]

I don’t understand

[coxoabean]

I know the feeling of being sheltered so much, my parents are like that. They usually want what's best for us tho

[In_Trance]

It's definitely a red flag. She's lacking the social skills necessary to interact with a person on a deeper level

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

What is wrong about being a virgin at flippin' 18? Sheesh.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's definitely not a red flag. You're a smart girl take you time there is no hurry

[Anonymous]

Population you girlie. Most people do not care.

[RavVid]

It is unreasonable to make sex compulsory.

[MicahRaine]

Because they wish they hadn't made mistakes

[Fireguy17]

because they are idiots.

[gatixek710]

I don't know. IT's not really a big deal.

[Zeropopular]

They want to fix the issue

[zagor]

Some people are idiots.

[jahaims]

I don't know a single human who acts like that

[Wise4myage]

Because they are morons?

[MasterKS]

because having sex is so normal!

[shortster]

judgmental people.