How do I know when my boyfriend is getting tired of me?

[Anonymous]

so he's been really busy with his work, so it's hard to tell. but he's been saying my personality is very different from his and how sometimes he doesn't like it, but he accepts and is used to it. maybe he just saying it this way to be nice or it's like a warning? what if he's slowly starting to resent me over this? is there any way I can tell? (fyi sometimes I feel like he misunderstands me)

[ohsheeT]

When we communicate around our family our friends what have you sometimes we're a little bit more Stern or soft or whatever and we are who we are or sometimes that's just it we are who we are and people might look at us different

Or boyfriend girlfriend scenario maybe your personality is stronger than his and maybe you know exactly what you want in life and you have your own rules and your own intake of things and maybe you're very strong with that and he doesn't know how to handle it and maybe he's trying to manipulate you into becoming somebody else because he can't handle it it's not that he can't handle it but he's afraid of it already you're too strong for him maybe so he's going to use his words to try to trick you into being somebody else but you have to worry about is one thing what comes out of your mouth and the way that you act is it you at all times no matter what if you're in a straight line keep going forward that's beautiful that means you love yourself and you know what you want in life there's nothing wrong with that but if you're wishy-washy and you're going up and down and sideways and you're one way one day and a different way another day then I can see what he's talking about but I don't think you're that way I think you are very confident person very wise person and I believe that you know what you want in life and one of the things. Is you know right from wrong and you know if you do this then this is what's going to happen or if you do that then this is what's going to happen and maybe your opinionated about it there's nothing wrong with that either so you have to listen to yourself talk really listen to yourself talk hear yourself and listen see if you're loud see if you're bald see if you're controlling and go from there figure it out but if he doesn't want to be around you because you're stronger than he is that could be it too now you're smarter than he is maybe that's it too but if you listen to yourself you'll figure it out listen to your tone of voice watch your body language how you act how you communicate and that will tell you exactly

Also watch his body language and his tone of voice because that will tell you everything too

. But don't allow yourself to change for anybody not unless you actually know what you're doing and exactly what he's talking about so that's your job is to figure it out by paying attention to yourself your body language your tone of voice the way you act as you're speaking and see where it goes from there

[Anonymous]

He will do less and less with you/

[In_Trance]

Ask him