Do you care far less about someone's personality, when they're hot?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

No they still go both hand in hand but we have to understand is when somebody's hot everybody has a different opinion on hotness if You're beautiful on the inside you're smart you're caring and you have a beautiful heart and you're just good on the inside was there somebody think you're beautiful or not I will find that beauty and put it all together because it's all in the details of everything that works together but I like personality because that's who we truly are

It is the person on the inside... . The personality
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we're not the mask that we all wear we are truly spiritual and the person on the inside .

And of course we all like that beauty on the outside but it is the eye of the beholder that picture that you have on your page on this question she's beautiful if she had a great personality and she had a beautiful heart I haven't said she'd be perfect .. but at the same time there are girls that other people would say don't look that good that I would say look good because I know who they truly are from the inside out

[MrOracle]

No.

Looks just don't matter that much for a relationship - the important things are morals, values, and life goals. That's what's going to determine whether your relationship lasts or not.

People who pick partners based on looks are essentially telling you that they don't take relationships seriously, and are just looking for some temporary fun. If you believe otherwise, you will almost certainly learn the hard way that you are mistaken. It's usually a painful and expensive lesson to have to learn the hard way.

Sadly, today, most people pick partners based on looks (and/or money for women) today, which is why most relationships fail.

[DishLady]

No. I actually just had this conversation with a friend. What's in their hearts and souls is way more important than their face/bod, which fade with time.

[ItsJill]

Nope nope nope. He can be the hottest guy in the world, but if he’s got the personality of a rock or worse he’s a jerk, he’s not for me.

[Friendlybro79]

What if he as the personality of The Rock? Ha. Jk

[Summeroflove]

No I don’t how good someone looks depends on the effort they put into themselves (almost) anyone can be hot if they put the effort in.

What matters is who someone is on the inside. What if someone has a beautiful head of hair. But looses it to cancer? What if someone becomes a burn victim? Are you going to love someone less? Unfortunately for some people the answer is yes.

[OlderAndWiser]

A hot appearance will attract a guy to a girl - initially - but it's not enough to make him stay if he doesn't lkike you. . . unless he just wants sex.

[Finchie40]

Only if I am seeking a relationship her personality is important , if I am just looking to get laid , then her looks will do

[LiaRaven]

Personality then anything else after

[Miristheiss]

I don't know. Maybe.

Hotness is just about attraction though. There is a thing as too hot.

Hotness is about hooking up. Long term relationships or marriage, that is about aligned life goals, values, views on major topics like how to handle money, how many kids, how to you view sex and boundaries, religion.

I'd advise any man to never try to make a 9 or a 10 level girl (in terms of hotness) his girlfriend or wife. Those are only for looking at or hooking up with if you have the chance. They are not long term material.

Find a girl who is a 6 to 8 range of attractiveness, you'll have a better chance of finding a long term mate there.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No.

The inverse question of "do you care less about someone not being hot when they thave a great personality?" is also a "no" though.

All or nothing.

Or rather I'd befriend but not date/marry an unattractive person with a great personality.

I'd date/marry an attractive woman with a great personality, provided we had the same interests and hobbies.

And if their personality sucks, I block all contact with them, regardless of whether or not its a woman I found to be hot.

[OneViewpoint]

Nope. Hotness, just like money and privilege can ruin a lot of people really fast and really badly. Therefore anyone with those attributes are automatically suspect for me. They will have to work harder to prove they're not idiots and assholes.

That may be unfair but experience has shown me that people who win the genetic lottery are prone to developing a sense of entitlement that they are blind to. I don't want to get mixed up in that.

[bmm1996]

No, I care for someone's personality as much as I care for their physicality. If their personality and physicality is not up to par with mine, if not better, then what is the point? I have been told date who you are, not what you want. That way their is no disinterest, unless you are disinterested in yourself. If so, then you are lacking in one of the seven forms of love-Philautia: a healthy form of self-love that involves recognizing your self-worth and personal needs. If I am lacking in any of the seven forms of love, then I should not be dating, especially, anything more than dating. If you find yourself lacking in any forms of love, identity the problem, identity the solution, and apply it.

[NicholasRedone]

👀 👀 I should say, as I usually say truthfully: - looks and personality - yet looks get my attention, then personality.

Yet it's not always a hard rule to me. Sometimes people surprise us 😀 - aka instant attraction to some, attraction that fades. Sometimes no attraction, then attraction builds. Shrugs, complicated world lol 😆

[Camel777]

When I was younger like any young man raging with testosterone. The physical is all that mattered. Our biology focused on spreading that seed which meant as long as she's got the hips \ ass\ boobs... And gives the feminine vibe we shout down except for the humanity production tool. However, at this point, let's say I want a woman I can enjoy in and out of the bedroom. A woman whom after we have exhausted each other I'll still want to go do things with her that don't involve sex.

[Caroline91]

Personality is more important to me, but most important, is character.

[RavVid]

I think I inherently do even though I wouldn't find myself thinking she is so hot that she doesn't need a personality.

A gal pal said to everything an attractive man does is attractive. So I assume it is bidirectional.

[strateguy632]

"To *me, "everything etc.

[Ferngully2000]

Attractiveness will definitely draw you to a person, but if they are a d$&k or there’s nothing going on upstairs, then I’d say you’d get bored very quickly after the sex.

[Chthou95]

But let's be real, without looks, your characteristics don't mean much if you can't get past the front door

[Booboolove69]

I agree

[Ferngully2000]

@Chthou95 Yes of course, it gets you in the door but after that you need a bit of substance

[Chthou95]

But none of that would even matter if the looks threshold isn't meant

[Fireguy17]

nope, maybe a one and done, but anything more than one date will take a great personality over looks any day.

[tzdc21]

No. I still care. You could be the hottest woman on the planet, but if you have a bad attitude, it's an automatic no. Beauty means absolutely nothing without character.

[Sonorous]

We'll personality can be expressed in many ways. If you're asking if I'd tolerate an insufferable person just because they're attractive to me, the answer is a definite no.

[AyChingao]

No. If you're a soul less vapid creature I'll be walking away from any initial conversation pretty quickly, don't care how "hot" you are. Not fixin' ta waste my time.

[HungTexan]

Although I might be physically attracted to a woman because she’s hot, without an attractive and engaging personality, nothing could ever come of it.

[PrincessC16]

Not necessarily. I might be infatuated at first, but that always wears off.

[andreasderjuengere]

I actually care more.

That's why most of them don't pass ''my test''.

Where most of the others don't ''pass'' either.

I am picky :D (because I can afford it) :D

[AnonAndrew]

Yeah, of course.

But for a serious, long-term relationship, personality is still very important.

[Nikki1989]

Personality is 85% of the instant attraction, and that can be bumped up to at least 95% once you get to know them even more.

[bolverk]

NO - while being good looking might be initially be attractive, it is not that will sustain a relationship, a stinking personality is still a stinking personality no matter how attractive the wrapper!

[coxoabean]

No way, I've been there and done that and I don't want to again

[MaxW1]

Well if we're talking about someone who is trying very hard to have attention and be hot, that kind of tells me about her personality but i would definitely not care

[Makeushiver]

Looks are mostly important as far as initial attraction after infatuation wears off personality becomes more important. The woman in picture quite hot though

[molonski2]

Its a good question , maybe initially , but over time any looks wear off , and you will end up hating them.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I'm annoyed by the power of physical beauty, because it is a siren song interfering with my evaluation of personalities.

[strateguy632]

Hot makes forgive easier but just a short time, like anna wrote here. It just depends how rotten n how many days.

[exitseven]

Yes, its like this.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/fd_2hlSbcZw

When you're hot, you're hot.

[glennos89]

Absolutely not if she looks like a perfect 10 on the outside but her personality sucks then she would still be considered a ugly woman in my eyes

[ProbablyClueless]

No. I actually start to care more. After I dated a few super hot women, the novelty wore off.

[MisfitsLover92]

No personality still matters even if they are hot, im not going to date someone who is gorgeous but treats me like crap.

[FreyaRed]

I'm not looking bad and I treat hot guys like equals, this excludes glorification of them.

[Drumlin2001]

No. Looks will only last so long. For a relationship personality is more important.
For a fling, you can overlook some negative personality traits

[DrPepper12]

Never had to make that decision thankfully! All that internal ugliness will rear its head eventually no matter how hot.

[Regular_Normal_Guy]

No i don't like mean people even if they r super hot

[Phoenix98]

No it's still something I care about quite a bit.

[Joshydavid25]

Nah, because you want to enjoy the person you are with..

[robocop666]

there is a movement called the blackpill exposing this. Sadly its true whether you like it or not.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/O6qWiQ3piUk

[convo_king89]

Maybe for like a one night stand but long term if you can’t stand to be around her even if she’s hot what’s the point

[Intheclouds00]

No because of a hot person does not have a good personality, she is either totally entitled or totally judgmental or totally unbearable.

[Jennz6]

I want the whole package, personality and good looks

[Yannae]

Quite the contrary. If they are hot but single, something is off.

[SimpleGirl07]

I do because it provides some mental stimulation, which helps in the bedroom.

[Chthou95]

Most people wouldn't even acknowledge how good your personslity is if they don't find you attractive first

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. Physical looks are important but if her personality is ish then I won't endure a woman like that.

[nawtee_me]

Not really. Looks change over time so I prefer personality.

[LiamJHayden]

No. Personality and character are most important to me, by far.

[Jay-_-]

If they're personality is bad I dead serious get disgusted.

[Jay-_-]

Their* sorry auto correct 😂

[trixie479]

It's more than that it's how they treat me. Can we laugh together? Can we vibe together. Are they super critical

[blackeagle007]

I dunno anyone they wanna be around someone with a shit personality

[Pohjolan]

Well yes and no. Their looks are also telling something about their personality.

[beefcakebradybatson]

A bit, but said hottie must STILL have a good personality.

[MikeRJ]

I would prefer "hot with a great personality.

[Anonymous]

Of course not. Personality is what matters the most. 👀

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope she has to have a good personality that's a deal breaker for me

[fuddly]

I think so
And it helps too if she has her own wealth

[five_guy]

No, if their personality is a turn off, it doesn't matter how hot they are.

[Rena90]

Relationship one personality, hot if it’s one nightstands.