Is it okay to ask a girl you just started talking to how old her kids are?

[red324]

Say they mention them, is that an okay thing to ask?

[Lliam]

Of course. It shows that you are interested in learning about them. And they are a topic she would like to talk about because they are the center of her life.
Ask her more about them to show interest and put her at ease.

[Anonymous]

That will come off as creepy. I would not do it.

[red324]

Guess that's why I didn't get a reply back... oops

[red324]

I figured they would typically be glad you aren't scared off when they mention kids

[Opinion Owner]

You already asked and did not receive a reply back. You have probably scared her off and ruined any future possibility you might have had with her.

[red324]

I don't really see anything wrong with the question.

[Opinion Owner]

With all the crime against children out there, it makes them scared, and they think you are going to harm their children.

[red324]

i've always thought it was better than asking how many.

[Opinion Owner]

Now you know for next time never to ask this question of their ages too soon.

[red324]

She responded back

[Opinion Owner]

Was it a good response?

[red324]

Answered the question

[nicfire171]

Yeah definitely