IS IT TOO SOON TO ASK/HINT A GIRL TO MEET HER FRIENDS OR PARENTS?

[PhilJamie09]

Is it too soon to ask a girl about meeting her parents or best friends? Or should she be the one who asks me first? It's only fifth date, but I like her and she values her best friends opinions a lot. So maybe it would help if I met her friends or parents?

Maybe I don't ask directly, but say "do you usually introduce someone you are dating to your parents or best friends?" I don't want to scare her off though!

[Wanghe20512]

For the fifth date I think it won't be that awkward to ask to meet her friends but you guys better already had sex, so that she would be more trust you and feel less offended, if she reject that you just don't push her, drop it there immediately and maybe wait a bit longer then that would be fine. For ask meeting her parents you better wait until you guys in a relationship, then you can ask. But as a girl I prefer the guy to introduce me to his friends or parents first, cause that make me feel the guy is serious and honest to me to bring me to his life and admit me in the public, if I agreed, after that if the guy ask me to meet my friends I won't be that offended or if I reject him, I would still add value to that guy, cause at least he makes me feel safty.

[Stargal]

I think it's totally fine to ask her to introduce you her bestie. Not her parents though, even if it's your 5th date that would be a quick escalation. You can also hint at it by asking her if she'd want to know your friends. But your approach is much better. I'd say go with it.

[Logan_V96]

No, it’s not too soon. 5 dates is a lot.

[PhilJamie09]

Is the way I framed the question OK? I will ask in person. I hope it doesn't scare her.