So I'm 25 she's 19 is the gap to big?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I matched with this girl on Hinge and we been talking for almost a month and I have never really vibe with anyone like this same sense of humour we are both like the same foods same shows hobbies and we really get along.

I asked very early on if she has an issue with our age gap as it will be a 7 year gap in June and she said she can't see any issue with it I'm taking things slow as I want here to know I'm not after anything

Now I don't really think about the gap and have no issues but we was talking about what we did during the lockdowns and I was talking about how I had to work and I realised she would of only been 14 at the time and it made me question if this is okay.

I get that we are in very different life positions and life experience but if we vibe and happy surely that gap doesn't matter right as long as we are both happy?

But I'm also afraid of what people might say and if people around us don't approve I don't want that to effect our relationship her friends are okay with it mine kinda say it's to young and I don't think her family know about me just yet.

So any advice or opinions would be much appreciated :)

[D_Bone_Steak]

Bang bang baby. Less baggage, less comparisons to others, less un-amazement at everything... it's a win situation. That fucking age gap is nice! Put a baby inside that vagina already.

[Sevenpointfive]

as long as you realize her face isn't done growing. when she's 25, you'll wonder where the hell she went

[EmmaMary]

REPORTED... DUPLICATE ACCOUNT.

[Sevenpointfive]

@Higirlshowru i don't see any polls on your profile?

[trumpetplayerforlife]

No me and my husband are 7 years apart me and my ex were 14 years apart lol as long as your both adults age shouldn't matter

[Abbycado]

Not my thing to date someone that much older, but it isn't unheard of and not a problem. She is an adult.

[Selene1600000]

A 7-year age gap by itself isn’t automatically a problem if you’re both consenting adults, aligned in values, and in similar enough life stages to actually build something healthy together. What matters more than the number is whether there’s balance, respect, and no power or maturity mismatch that puts either of you at a disadvantage. The fact that she was 14 during lockdown is only relevant if it makes you realize you’re at very different life stages now, not because it makes the current situation “wrong.” You should focus less on outside opinions and more on whether the relationship feels stable and mutual when real life stress shows up, not just when everything is fun and easy. If you’re genuinely happy, keep going slowly and see how it develops in real life, but if you’re constantly anxious about judgment or differences, that discomfort is also useful information worth listening to.

[NicholasRedone]

Bro ; if she's legal she's legal and if you're legal you're legal :) - besides who knows how long any relationships last 💔

[EmmaMary]

Personally I consider that within the realms of acceptability.

[Anonymous]

Acceptable, half your age plus seven

[missindiana93]

Nope

[jahaims]

Gross

[dudeinohio]

It isn't

[guyinterested]

it's not too big