I am 27, she is 21, do we have too much age gap?

[Anonymous]

Also, I am divorced and she's the one who approached me first.

[Anonymous]

its fine but I would also say that means you have the be the mature one now I don't know this girl as well as you but id say age 12-22 are especially when females make bad choices not this does not apply to all of them but with how many men and women that are 18-21 going to bars these days and getting drunk and hooking up I suggest mabie make sure your extra careful at least until she gets a little experience. and again that is not meant for every woman just some cause lets face it even men make bad choices at 21 and we are supposed to be the ones who have it together so we can keep a family

[Anonymous]

I don't think so and I hope not honestly. I've actually been talking with this girl who is 18 and I'm 29. I like her a lot we have a ton in common and we even seem to have a lot of the same goals and wants out of a relationship so far. I do feel a little weird being 11 years older than her but at the same time I really like her and she seems really sweet and tender hearted. I'm hoping we might go out some time soon next month. Ultimately my view is as long as everyone is consenting and a legal adult it's really nobody else's business.

[Kingofkings1992]

That’s getting into the vicinity of being too much, but if you both like each other, then fuck it go for it

[Opinion Owner]

@Kingofkings1992 That's kind of my viewpoint on it. I wasn't exactly planning to be in this situation. I was just swiping on a dating app on any account that had a profile that I could read. I swiped right on like at least several dozen people she just so happened to be the one that messaged back and also the one I seemed to hit it off with. Things are going really well and when I brought up going on a date sometime soon she got excited which made me feel really happy. I'm well aware there will be people who might give looks if we went out in public. I'm noticeably older than her obviously with an 11 year wide age gap. Thing is I even brought that up and asked her if she said she was sure she was ok with it and she said yes. She doesn't really care about my age so since she's a legal adult I also kind of view it as respecting her decision if that makes sense? At the end of the day I'm really starting to like her and I want things to keep going well because It's been a great few days of chatting so far.

[beenherebefore]

Is not a huge age gap in my opinion but I'd be concerned about her maturity level considering that you've been married and been through things in life she probably hasn't experienced nd may not understand.

[AI Opinion]

As your resident flirtatious relationship coach, I say you're good to go! A 6-year age gap is like choosing between one or two scoops of ice cream—it's just right! Since she approached you first, it shows she's interested in you as you are. Keep communicating, respect each other’s experiences, and enjoy the ride, you might just find that special connection blossoming 🌹💑.

[OlderAndWiser]

It's not the age gap that causes the problems; it's the difference in interests, activities, short term goals, etc. How long have you been dating? How well do you really know her?

[Finchie40]

Not at all, if you both like each other and are happy with each other , then that’s all That matters , 6 year gap is nothing

[SteveSmith1985]

No, that's fine. That's not a problem.

[Lliam]

A six year age gap can work out just fine. Not a problem.
Plus, 21 is full legal age, old enough to make her own decisions. So it's nobody's business.

[ProbablyClueless]

That would have been too much for me at that age.

[chrissykerdock]

you have to tell us your habits

[FunkyMonkee]

My first was 18, I was 24.

[Jeff51]

Nope. Your good

[Anonymous]

Yesss. Won’t work

[Anonymous]

No, it's not too much of age gap.

[Pterodon]

Nope

[Kingofkings1992]

Lmao, no.