Girls, How do you deal with finding out you're the other guy?

[Anonymous]

I found out im the other guy. We've been dating for 3 years. I found out she's been engaged for 2 years. It hurts like hell. How do I heal from this. Im very angry at her for lying to me. I'm really starting to hate women now. I'm really starting to think about treating women like crap the rest of my life. What do I do?

[Little_Bumblebee]

Listen, Something like that is horrible. That's a crappy way to treat someone.

Get away, and then use whatever time you need, to get over it. Be angry, be sad, talk with friends, do sport or dive into work, or hobbies.

But this crappy treatment she gave you, has nothing to do with other women. I hope you know that.

[Asker]

I know it's not all women. I don't hate women at all ( I just don't like bit**y ones) it's just anger I'm venting. Just by you saying what you said has helped. Instead of insulting me you gave positive advice. It hurts being cheated on. I don't know if you have ever experienced it. It hurts like hell. I don't hate women I'm just frustrated and venting.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Nobody likes bitchy people (I hope).
I understand needing to vent. And I'm glad what I wrote helped.
And yeah, even though I haven't tried being cheated on technically (as far as I know,) I have been with a manipulative man that crossed boundaries, held things from me, weren't transparent at all, burned down my confidence, and got me into a relationship dynamic that made me cry most nights and made me feel crazy. He was apparently poly and while with us both, he married the other girl, just telling mere mere days before, even though he kept saying we were equal.

So yeah, I understand being hurt.
I hope you get through it and heal properly.

[Anonymous]

Date girls your own league

[Asker]

It had nothing to do with my "league" she lied to me and him. "Leagues" are for teenagers and immature people.

[Opinion Owner]

lol , don’t expect a rich women to be loyal to a broke guy. Don’t expect a beautiful women to want an ugly guy. Use your brain

[Asker]

I know that. I wouldn't date a rich woman ever. Rich women are parasites. Most beautiful women go into modeling porn and acting. The rest of you who are decently good looking are who I go for. I'm not ugly either. She wasn't rich either or that attractive. She betrayed me and him.

[Opinion Owner]

Clearly she was way better than u. And not worth being loyal for. Date women your league

[Asker]

Go f yourself b. I hope someone hits you with a semi.

[Valdemort]

Girl, hakuna your titties. What's with the superficial, golddigging perspective? Good Lord.