To not wish fuckbuddy a happy birthday?

[Anonymous]

Would it be rude not to?

[SteveSmith1985]

Wish him a happy birthday. If you remember its his birthday, it's weird (you're weird) if you don't say happy birthday.

Is it rude if you don't? not really, but it'll certainly not be as welcome as you wishing him a happy birthday.

Stop overthinking this, and just wish him a happy birthday

🙂

[Asker]

His reminder is on Facebook.

[SteveSmith1985]

So then...(are you still not sure what you're going to do?) I assumed this message was going to be:

"I wished him a happy birthday. He said thanks."

So what's the play? Need more time to think?

[Asker]

He spends most times never interacting with me except when he wants sex. He told me the other day he wants a birthday present.. Why should I get him anything he doesn't bother with me any other time

[SteveSmith1985]

hmm, so this just went from me making fun of you... to suddenly not laughing at all. Based on the (admittedly very very little) bit I know about him...

Your fuckbuddy sounds like an asshole. Am I wrong?

(don't wish that idiot a happy birthday.)

[Asker]

Most likely yes

[SteveSmith1985]

If you mean he's most likely an asshole, then you should consider a new fuck buddy. There are other people who aren't assholes who would be glad to become your fuck buddy... and not be a jerk.

[ohsheeT]

I would think a fuck buddy would be a good friend and you would want to do something nice. .. so I guess if you have to ask. I'm thinking he's not really a good fuck or buddy

[Asker]

He ignores me most of the time. I did send him a happy birthday with no xs after it. He replied back few minutes later with thanks xx

[ohsheeT]

That's tells he's a smart man

[ohsheeT]

But that smart is more selfish than anything. I bet he has no contact with you unless he wants something from you . And you would just walk away. But you think that's he good at what he does. And you might be right. But to be honest, I don't think so

Because selfish men are only good at one thing, and that's being selfish.

[Asker]

What do you mean he's smart?

[ohsheeT]

Well, he was smart to thank you, but that's it. I think he's selfish if he makes it all about him. Because if he I'd doingnthat then I know for a fact. Even as a fuck buddy. He's not that good. He might be good to you, but that just means you haven't experienced omg good

I shouldn't say this, but I'm going to I could role play with you and get you off better than he has. I would even bet on that.. but anyway. Like I said, I shouldn't have said that, but it is true. Well, I can't say anymore because it also sounds like the guy has an ego

But what I just said sounds like the same thing , even though it's not

[Anonymous]

I mean he’s not your boyfriend , why would you get him anything or say anything if you don’t see him much?

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho

[trumpetplayerforlife]

He's there to please your needs not to be bestie with lol

[Shiprex]

Why not? Did he do something to upset you? If you're having a sexual relationship there's bound to be some interpersonal interaction that is better done civilly instead of some weird transactional impersonal act.

[zagor]

Why not? Don't you usually wish anyone you know reasonably well that if you know it's their birthday?

[jahaims]

Fbs are for emotionally stunted people who are too immature for a healthy relationship

[PaleDale]

Why not?

[Asker]

He only messages me to hook up

[PaleDale]

Then forget it, find someone who loves you