Do you agree with the saying hurt people hurt people?

[Anonymous]

The saying is supposed to mean basically people who are unhappy with their life or themself are the people who will generally try to intentionally make others feel bad.

One time on this website the other male user wrote a comment to me I found quite offensive. I don’t want to repeat what he said.

Anyway afterwards I looked at his profile and I saw he has posted comments on other questions way before he has ever wrote to me saying things like how he has been rejected a lot by women in his life. Getting rejected a lot by the opposite sex is obviously gonna make a person feel like shit.

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Being reject a lot by the opposite sex is going to make a person feel misery

[Summeroflove]

This happens a lot where many people want to drag others down with them. Keep this in mind too that some people hurt and push away others as a defense mechanism, where they have been hurt before, rejected, discarded, and the list goes on so they want to sabotage the relationship before you can. So it could mean they really like you but are trying to push you away it really depends I notice this behavior as well but calling it out would only bring on the attacks.

Don’t get me wrong plenty of people are struggling mentally, emotionally, etc. But aren’t intentionally dragging people down sometimes unfortunately it’s the opposite where they hide it to keep everyone happy as well as don’t want to feel bad burdening others. Even if they could really use someone for emotional support.

But there are some just miserable people who play the victim and will never be happy. I can’t feel sympathy for many anymore because I just see how they get themselves into these situations.

[Summeroflove]

But you’re right. Many people when they are getting rejected. They want to reject and hurt you before you can reject them.

[ohsheeT]

Of course. That's who bully's are
There are people out there that hate themselves.
They have no friends. They have no life except for anger and pain.

And if you open that door for them. And if they think that they can get away with it because you're weak Then they're going to try
To take you to their level because that's all they know and understand.

Because that's the way they've been treated all their lives

If you allow them into your life , they're ringing that ugly drama
Because they want you to feel the same way they do. And if you get into that drama it's a dark road It's a dark world.

Drama holds you back. Drama is ugly you? You're kind up and nothing but drama from then on. So walk away from people to create drama in your life. Because that's who you will become, it's like evil VS good. Evil will change good into evil if it gets the opportunity

[Nikki1989]

Misery tends to follow miserable people. You can see it on here daily.

[Anonymous]

No. They're excusing an action. You ALWAYS have a choice in life. I could understand it if he has trust issues. But openly being a jerk and blaming it on thatis just excusing an action.

That's like I've seen women on here harass a guy because he opens up about past rejections. And those women use it as an opportunity to try to emasculate him. Because guys aren't supposed to feel any pain? And it's much the same with those women. If you go to thier profile you see the same thing you just mentioned. It doesn't excuse thier actions either.

[DrPepper12]

It's an imputable law of the universe. Yes. 💯

[Noodle_fan]

Mostly yes