Where is the best place for an average 55-year-old guy to approach women that you find attractive and you don’t want to come off creepy or odd?

[Tommystyle]

[SueShe]

A total stranger that approaches a woman IS going to come off creepy and/or odd. The age of that person is not important but the act is.

We all know what the ultimate goal, the final aim of that approach is. When you state "... that you find attractive...", we are aware of the intentions otherwise you would also approach those you don't find attractive, right?

This is the problem that women all over the world are confronted with. Men that approach only those that they find attractive do it because ultimately, getting into their pants is what it is all about and that is obviously creepy to us. We are seen as objects only.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Well, I think visually it's gonna look more awkward if you are approaching 20-somethings to pick up for dates. That is gonna come off as more desperate. If you are talking about women your own age though, then I think you just have to go for it whenever the opportunity arises. It will be awkward for some and for others they will be more receptive.

For me personally, I would say it I look like I'm engaged in a conversation then maybe not then. Never when I'm coming to or from the bathroom. If I'm in public though and not in one of those circumstances then you'd probably have a green light to approach.

[SteveSmith1985]

I feel like you have a funny story about being hit on while on your way to the bathroom.

[Shiprex]

Don't, let them come to you that way they have shown they are interested and prepared to make the effort of reciprocation. Age shouldn't be a thing but some people insist on judging it.

[TrueConfection]

Grocery stores and large box stores seem to be the place. I often get approached in those stores and feel completely safe and not creeped out like I would in a smaller clothing store.

[Abbycado]

Just going to take a stab at this but bar/club maybe?

Have to be the right crowd type of course.

[Jay-_-]

Honestly no idea.