I dont know what is our status? And when we will speak?

[Anonymous]

I have started to reconnect with a guy I met last year while I was moving out of my property sharing with father of my son, but the relationship was over however it´s been hard to get through moving out situation with my ex. I met this new person while I was doing all of this whom I really liked unexpectedly, but we broke up after we started hooking up after a week where he did not tell me he had unfinished business with his ex. I'm not sure when this was over, but we started to reconnect about two weeks ago. Everything has been really good, and on messages he has been trying to talk about what happened between us last time where I have not said anything about it. I'm just not ready to talk about those things and dive in to those feelings. But I am still doing custody battle with my ex for our child, and things have been really rough to communicate with the father of my son and I'm just very closed off for a relationship at the moment. The day comes when me and this guy meet and it´s really good, romantic and nice, but it was really late and I was 2 seconds away from falling asleep however due to I had a very bad day where I got in to a fight with the father of my son, I was very quiet when I was with him and he started to ask why I was so quiet and I just had to say I was really tired. He was amazing, he bought chocolate for the occasion and we talked about certaint things and just laid in bed together. But I felt also awkward, I was not ready to open up to him and he sensed it. I was also very surprised that he kissed me both when I met him and when I was going to go home in public and holding hands to his apartment and to my car, things he never did last time we were involved with each other. Now I traveled and are coming back in two days, and I have not gotten hold of him since I left, and he took his phone on flight mode on Saturday and immediately when he woke up he unfollowed his ex on instagram. Then today I saw his ex and her friend have been stalking me.

[SueShe]

Your status is "nothing" and is most likely going to stay that way for a while until you get over your situation and straighten your life with your ex and with the custody and that you give a certain distance and time.

Whether he is willing to wait that long is questionable honestly. If he is in the same age group as you are, he is not going to wait patiently for you to be ready. He has testosterone to take care of and while he can be patient for a few weeks, I don't think he is willing to wait months.

Guys tend to be like that. They will bend backwards if they know they can get something but if that something is taking too much time, they will move to the next target that is easier to grab.

[Abbycado]

I would take care of your custody stuff and get yourself straight before dealing with this whole thing. My two cents.

[In_Trance]

You need to get your shit together first. At this point it's a fairy tale

[Avicenna]

You need to have a frank convo about this

[Anonymous]

I do not think so.