What should I do, I don’t know what’s happening in regards to us meeting?

[Anonymous]

At the weekend we both said we’re both free on Thursday which is tomorrow and we was texting yesterday and he said he’d still like to meet me Thursday but he has to work. I said that’s fine I understand we can just meet when you haven’t got work like a weekend or maybe when you can work from home (because he can work from home sometimes ) he said his going to see if he can work from home as he said he still wanted to see me. Anyways today I haven’t heard a single thing from him and his at the pub with his mates I know this because of his story. That I feel is a bit rude am I right in thinking that? If I don’t hear from him tomorrow should I text him saying I guess we’re not meeting up then a heads up would of been nice, just delete him or just do nothing act unbothered?

[wheist9095]

I think it sounds like he really does want to try and meet with you, I don't know what you guys are meeting for but you could just meet after he gets off work. Unless you guys have a big distance between you, and this kind of meeting is a rare thing. If he doesn't text you tomorrow, send him a "so what happened?" Text and if it feels like he's just giving you a bullshit excuse, just end things. Because whether or not he's giving you a bullshit excuse doesn't matter as much as your ability to trust in him and if you think he's flaking on you then that means that you don't see him as someone reliable so there's no point in being in a relationship

[Vegasrunner]

What is your goal w/ this man?