What should I do , we meet after 1 month silence?

[Anonymous]

me and my crush were talking for 3 months and things were definitely great until I don't know what happened we stopped talking for 1 month bec i was the one always starting to talk to him i went silent to test whether he would call but he didn't we kept silent for 1 month today i meet in person him we talk shortly but he was somehow quiter than usual more of listening than talking what does it mean and what should i do? does he regret leaving me or he just was not interested

[aloha77]

What i feel is that maybe he is not interested. But there's a high chance i may be wrong as i know nothing about your life. I'm practically thinking.

[Asker]

today he was weird he was looking at me more than of talking just looking,, we were crazy in love the past 3 months then we stopped talking for 1 month I don't know why , i just miss him... do u think he misses me and was thinking about it or he wanted me to leave? i went to see common friend today and pumped into him..

[aloha77]

If i loved a girl i would never stop talking to her for no reason. If the reason was genuine then maybe he loves you , rest i think no :(

[Asker]

he was busy was work i think and i wanted to test him if he would contact me or not ,, last time we talked i sent him that i would not bother him again and would stop asking for his help he called me after words and checked if i was okay and cool then bump no talk i didn't talk to test if he didn't care and he stopped I don't know his bride maybe i really don't know...

[Asker]

do you think he loves me or not? what should j do now?

[aloha77]

If he loved you he would at least spare few minutes in a day for you or maybe few hours in a week. I have to sadly say it appears maybe he isn't in love. The best thing is you should talk to him about it with all your heart

[aloha77]

Letting out all your feelings to him would help you understand the bigger picture and would also help take you your next step

[Asker]

why do you think he looked sadly at me today and was very quiet ? i unfortunately dont want to talk to him bec i don't wana make things more awkward i guess i wanted a sign that if he loved me i would go for him... ps he broke with his ex 6 months before our dates do u think he have trust issues?

[Asker]

i love him so much and really can't imagine my life without him but idont understand what has happened..

[aloha77]

🥺🥺🥺🥺😭 i feel for you. I hope he is still in love but the things which you told me doesn't go your way.

[aloha77]

People come and go.. the one who has to stay will come and stay till the end. Trust the process!!

[Asker]

i guess he didn't want to break my heart so he went silent..
things never go as we plan 💔💔
i wished he was the one
i could never say anything i don't want to appear cling maybe i will write a sad post or something on Facebook and move on..💔💔💔
thank uu for listening to me it really means a lot to me❤

[Asker]

i guess i will never trust anyone again i don't want my heart to break again ,, my heart now is shattered to million pieces

[aloha77]

I can feel you. I was in love once and tried to get her for like 3 years had a relationship and then breakup which i could not handle and took me 3.5 more years to recover. You know why it took so many years? Because i lived away from her after 3.5 years. Because of the distance and no conversation it became relatively easy to forget her. So for you i would suggest to stay away as far as possible and try not to start a convo..

[aloha77]

Trying to talk to him would once again take up on a fucked up loop.

[aloha77]

Also try figuring out some of his bodily imperfections and try to focus on those imperfections. It can be bad skin , bad smile , bad feet etc and focus how bad part was.. this would too help you move on faster

[Asker]

i so so sorry for you i hope u find someone better than her she clearly doesn't deserve you ,, i really hope you meet someone that makes your life wonderful,, the truth i can't really forget him we work at the same place but different departments i go to work every and feel shit bec i remember him ever where ,, i just wonder why doesn't he miss me like i was nothing to him it makes me feel terrible i guess when i meet him today i just wanted to hug him and cry but we both acted like strangers but his silence gave me hope maybe just maybe he regret what happened but i guess i am wrong and will always be wrong..

[Asker]

i wish i have never meet him ,, i will try like you said hope it works for me

[aloha77]

😭😭😭😭 i wish i could really help you get him. The problem is you both work at one place!!! That's terrible. Very hard. If u want him to get back to you what about dressing sexily in the office for him? Like maybe new hairstyle new make up stuff?

[aloha77]

But if he ignores you after all the months i still think it would be better to think of another guy than him. But if u like really want him then make him want you! Works everytime for any man!!

[Asker]

i did today and went to his department for some silly reason but he was lost i didn't know him he was just looking at me and quiet when we were alone but acted like nothing happened infront of others i thought maybe maybe he regret it ,,, i guess i have no chance with him... i really wanna thank uuu you helped me so much i would continue making up excuses for him but i guess i have to accept the fact and move on..

[aloha77]

This is a hard phase but it sure will pass. Trust me i know it feels that the pain would not go away but that's just the mind which lies to you. U would feel better!! More power to u !

[Asker]

thank you so much can't really thank you enough really really you helped me hope you meet someone that makes you forget all the pain ❤❤

[aloha77]

I'm all good for years now !! I wish you the same 😊😊😊. Be strong.

[Asker]

i will thank uu so much ❤❤

[aloha77]

😄❤️

[Anonymous]

he's bored. Not all that into you sorry

[Asker]

no hope right?

[Opinion Owner]

No hope