When we have been talking for two weeks non stop and then today nothing

[flotus88]

I have been talking to this guy for two weeks non stop, everything has been going well. He has said he was interested in me and he could see where things were going with us and all that good stuff. He even told a girl that was hitting on him that he could'nt cause he was kinda seeing someone (me).I spent the day and night with him the other day and things went find, we were not as cuddle as we were when we had first started out but I think it is because he is sick and he was tired. Now today, I have not heard from him. During these past two week, he has been the one coming to me, I have maybe texted him first three times...cause like many have said, boys like to chase...so I guess my question is...am I over reacting about this and is everything fine and I have nothing to worry about...thanks..

[ohmygollygarsh]

Well, like you said, you've been nonstop talking for 2 weeks. I remember the first month that my boyfriend and I were talking 4-5 hours a day before we started dating, I made a comment about the amount of sleep I'd been losing because of it. The first day that my boyfriend went without talking to me all day when we usually talk at least sporadically, I freaked out. Then 11:50 pm, he calls me and and the first thing he says, "Sorry that I didn't talk to you all day, I was busy and I figured that you were, too, since you didn't talk to me, either..." and since then, I've just chilled out because I know he's always going to call. If he didn't call, I wouldn't freak out because he doesn't like me, I'd just be worried that something bad happened!

My point is, he has a life and so do you. Just because he isn't all up your butt all the time doesn't mean he likes you. Granted, if he doesn't contact you in at least a week, I'd say it's a lost cause, on to the next one. Stop sitting at home, waiting for him to contact you. If he does, he does, if he doesn't, you're always going to find someone who will.