We had plans to meet but bow I’m not sure if we’re going to even meet. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

He asked me out for coffee after his leg is healed (he broke his ankle) after 6 weeks his leg is healed now.

We’re both muslims and in April it was ramadan (holy month for muslims where people fast during the day etc) during that time we didn’t chat at all. I haven’t really texted him lately. Ramadan ended on Sunday. I haven’t texted him and neither has he reached out to me… he was the last one who initiated conversation though (4 weeks ago). I hoped that he would’ve missed me and texted me and scheduled our date as soon as it was possible like he said.

[Markie-mark]

Maybe he takes being a Muslim deathly seriously? Who knows, try talk with him and see and if it's not going anywhere well I'm sorry

[Asker]

I don't know, we’re both muslims. Before we chatted and it wasn’t a problem then.

[Markie-mark]

Well shoot him a text, see how he sounds keep us updated or if nothing good happens, maybe there's more fish out there for you to catch

[Asker]

I know if I text him he will respond and quite enthustically but I want him to be more active and show me that he wants me…idk if I’m overthinking.

[Markie-mark]

A real relationship as far as I know is give and take, maybe that's what he wants too? I don't know if anything else really went wrong

[Asker]

So I should just reach out to him since he initiated our last conversation?

[Markie-mark]

Can't hurt anymore than not talking?

[Asker]

But I don’t want to chase him/ be desperate….

[Markie-mark]

Forgive me for my harsh tone but, shut up with that "be desperate" talk, as if anyone really has any ground to mock desperation when pursuing someone for real love is more reasonable than cause of some drudged-up grudge, you're worried about coming on too strong, but you shouldn't deny your love/attraction to him, it won't help your attempt at a relationship with him

[Asker]

But why hasn’t he texted me if he’s interested…..

[Markie-mark]

Wouldn't know unless you talked, even if I'm wrong, asking point-blank helps

[SecretsofKB]

Send him a text. See if he is still up for meeting for coffee. That is the best way. No point in waiting for him to text you.

[Asker]

”No point in waiting for him to text you.” Why do you think so?