We agreed to meet tomorrow on Sunday (coffee date). We set the day on Monday. Still we haven’t talked about where we are going to?

[Anonymous]

I haven’t heard from him since Monday. Also we haven’t set the place. I guess I have no choice but wait and see if he will reach out to me. Otherwise there’s no date.

[OlderAndWiser]

I remember being young and lacking confidence. Once I had a date arranged with a lady, I didn't want to talk to her again until the date because I was afraid I would mess up and she would cancel our plans.

[Asker]

But we haven’t even decided the place we are meeting at..

[OlderAndWiser]

He'll probably text you tomorrow, unless he is a player who just talked to you and created a backup plan in case nothing better came along.

[Asker]

Isn’t bit late to text to set the place the day we are supposed to meet?

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, it is very late by my standards.

[Asker]

If I don’t hear from him today then I’m not going to see him. I think it’s disrespectful. What if he texts me today in the evening. Still late?

[OlderAndWiser]

I absolutely HATE texting in relationships. It is SUCH a poor means of communications and it allows people to act cowardly.

If he text, why not respond, "Can you please call me to discuss this?" and then ask him why he didn't call you sooner?

[Asker]

We’ve never called each other. Also this is supposed to be our first meeting. I don't know if he’s shy , unexperienced or has low interest in me

[OlderAndWiser]

A shy guy, if he develops interest, tends to be more loyal and dedicated.

[Asker]

Why do you think that he’s shy and not have low interest in me?

[OlderAndWiser]

I only think that shy is a possible explanation. It could also be low interest.

[slatyb]

Weird. Met online? What was the last message sent?

[Asker]

Yes, we connected through social media. Last messages was me asking if 5pm is ok and he said yes it is.

[slatyb]

5PM tomorrow, but no location? Remind him -- I'll be looking at... at 5. Are you still coming?

[Asker]

It was supposed to be today. It’s 2am where I live. He just texted me saying that he’s been sick and asked if it’s okay to meet couple days later. He asked me when I’m free…

[driven159]

so ask him don't play games

[Asker]

He’s not even enthusiastic about our first meetig

[Asker]

Meeting*

[driven159]

time to move on then

[Asker]

It was supposed to be today. It’s 2am where I live. He just texted me saying that he’s been sick and asked if it’s okay to meet couple days later. He asked me when I’m free…

[In_Trance]

So what are you waiting for? Pick a place