We are planning to meet on Sunday (coffee date). We set the day and time on Monday but not the place. It’s Friday afternoon now. Red flag?

[Anonymous]

He hasn’t brought it up or asked me which coffee place are we going to.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Google coffee shops, pick a place & inform him where you will be & if he doesn’t respond or show up send him a selfie of you drinking coffee.

[Asker]

Lol isn’t that too much?

[Asker]

I’m going to wait for him to reach out to me.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It’s only coffee so if he won’t make plans you make the plans because if you wait for him to make plans it’s possible you might be waiting a long time. Go have coffee girl.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for your coffee day I wish you the best.

[Asker]

If he doesn’t make plans that means he isn’t really interested?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You ask:
If he doesn’t make plans that means he isn’t really interested?
I ask:
If (YOU) don’t make plans with him does it mean you aren’t interested?

[Asker]

Here’s the full story:

Is he even excited to meet me?

He asked me out on march when his leg was still broken.

Then on April because of ramadan ( holy month for muslims) we decided that we’re going to take a break from texting/chatting for a whole month.

After ramadan ended he reached out to me first. We catched up etc but didn’t talked about the date. We did talk about his leg and how he can walk now. I got sad and confused when he didn’t schedule our date.
Then I asked the next day if he’s still on to grab a coffee or has he changed his mind. That’s when he said ” yes I do want to grab a coffee soon. Earlier I was just making small talk because we hadn’t talked for a while. Then we continued to set day and time for the coffee date.

I already reminded him about the coffee date…

[boggboss]

Lol and either have u so I guess that's a red flag on your part also?

[Asker]

Here’s the full story:

Is he even excited to meet me?

He asked me out on march when his leg was still broken.

Then on April because of ramadan ( holy month for muslims) we decided that we’re going to take a break from texting/chatting for a whole month.

After ramadan ended he reached out to me first. We catched up etc but didn’t talked about the date. We did talk about his leg and how he can walk now. I got sad and confused when he didn’t schedule our date.
Then I asked the next day if he’s still on to grab a coffee or has he changed his mind. That’s when he said ” yes I do want to grab a coffee soon. Earlier I was just making small talk because we hadn’t talked for a while. Then we continued to set day and time for the coffee date.

Any red flags?

[boggboss]

U spoke to me already on this lol I answered it like I said before just go on the date the amount of overthinking u are doing is not healthy