Did I just get duped?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend drove 9 hours to see me, I told him yesterday that I wouldn't be able to hang out till 1 or 2 pm. I told him to come over and try to take a nap cause he got no sleep. He checked into the hotel and is currently taking a nap.

My mom is drunk and told me that he isn't real that I got duped. This man and I video chatted and I was gonna be on the phone with him while he was driving here but I was at work. He even gave me his hotel number.

My mom is really upsetting me cause she told me I was like my oldest sister. And she can barely walk because of how much alcohol she had.

I told her he was sleeping and she said "WHERE IS HE THEN?"

I don't know tho, is she right? :/

[SteveSmith1985]

Hey, I remember your question from earlier in the day. About whether you were being an asshole.

I'm not going to lie, I'm concerned to read this development.

I do not understand why your mom's drunken bullshit is making you question whether you've been duped.

I don't know your situation, but... are things so shakey that there's even a possibility that she migth be right?

I don't understand what she said, that is the least bit convincing? What makes you believe there is anything to her saying "he's not real"?

How long have you known him?

Have you tried to see him, and you can't get in touch with him?

I'm confused, but also concerend here. Something is fucked up. Or off here. I'd like to help you sort it out. Feel free to DM me, or we can continue here.

I'm mostly concerned by the fact that any part of you is doubting... and that your mom is actually getting to you. Nothing here indicates whether or not you've been duped (or how/why you're even questioning that you might be). More information is needed please.

[Babebytheshore85]

Why aren't you going out like a normal person?