Should a girl stay in a relationship with a guy if?

[Anonymous]

He was younger than her, acts jealous and starts fights over her interacting with anyone who is not him. He is nice and sweet and makes her feel safe, but does not like leaving his house, so he doesn't ask her out on dates and would rather have her over to his own place all the time, when she would rather they went out, to a quiet place or something... anywhere else, really. She has told him how she feels, but nothing has changed in that respect. It's important to add that he lives with his sisters who are nice and welcoming, but still...

[serious]

Well, tough to say but I think this can be worked out. If the guy is nice and sweet, treats her well but is lazy and procrastinates then these things can be worked out.

[serious]

Thanks for the MHO

[Luckycharms12]

sure he makes you happy maybe in time can help him break free of the house and experience and explore the world together

[SteveSmith1985]

This is an easy one to answer. The answer is: "No she should not stay in a relationship with a guy who gets jealous and starts fights over her interacting with anyone who is not him. That is literally the biggest possible red flag. It's what red-flag was first coined for. This exact situation. "my boyfriend doesn't want me talking to anyone else" RED FLAG.

Seriously. That is not ok. A guy who doesn't understand that this is not ok. This is very clear. You're not happy, nothing is changing, your boyfriend is abusive in his demands. That's not healthy, appropriate or normal.

There is really only one easy choice here. You should not stay in that relationship. I'm sure about that. I hope you realize it too.

[Asker]

Thank you.

[SteveSmith1985]

I am glad you're hearing me on this. 🙂

[In_Trance]

But still?
We can basically blurt out whatever we want wherever we want and justify it by ending off with "but still"

This is a gong Show... Move on

[FreyaRed]

No. He reduces you to an asset

[FreyaRed]

*her

[Blueeyes81]

Sounds like you are not compatible.