Honestly, should I be insecure and jealous that my boyfriend follows bikini girls?

[Anonymous]

hey everyone my boyfriend follows bikini girls on instagram and i was just wondering if i should be jealous or insecure about it? because to be very honest i am. he doesn’t let me follow him because he says that im going to start problems

[ohsheeT]

So what he's saying is I can do what I want and I don't care about your feelings.

I wounder how it would be if you were following bikini boys are male strippers and he wanted to follow you and you said no

[PeachyPie93]

No, you shouldn't be jealous.. A guy who can't make you secure and doesn't even let you follow him is not boyfriend material. He's for the streets..
Trust me, I have guys who only flirt with me and not want to date, yet they make me feel more secure than your guy is doing.

[Anonymous]

Why do you keep coming here asking this? You are clearly uncomfortable with him doing it and if he knows you don’t like it but still does it then congrats you’ve got a shitty excuse for a boyfriend. What else is there to say except do better.

[SteveSmith1985]

You don't have any reason to feel insecure or jealous.

That being said, the way you feel is normal. But you don't have any reason to worry.

It's the equivalent of you following hot buff model-type guys. It means nothing.

[Anonymous]

Not if you're going to stay with him. Let's be honest. He probably out of your league right? So you insecure because (rightly so) you feel like you don't measure up. Well this is the deal you made to date him. You can't have it both ways hun. To get the cherry you have to deal with the pit. That's just life.

[MannMitAntworten]

Neither of you should indulge in personal social media if you are involved. But that is just my opinion. I just see it causes problems in relationships. Which it obviously is doing with yours.

[serious]

Yes what he is doing is highly disrespectful

[jahaims]

You have no self respect if you date someone like that.

[Anonymous]

See a fucking therapist. You're annoying af, he doesn't like you and you're a stalker

[Opinion Owner]

And unattractive

[Anonymous]

It's just soft porn. I don't see why women make a big deal out of it.

[CountryWanderer]

I think you have a right to be annoyed

[Danny_dan92]

Do you post thirst traps? Be honest

[Asker]

no i do not

[Danny_dan92]

I see, yeah I can see how one sided the relationship is

[Danny_dan92]

Have you talked to him about it yet?

[Asker]

yes i did. he says he’ll stop then says it’s not a big deal because social media is fake.

[Danny_dan92]

Do you know if he likes and comments on the posts?

[Asker]

yes he does

[Danny_dan92]

Miss, I’m telling you this because I have gotten fucked over in my past relationships so I’m aware how painful heartbreak is.

I’d recommend ending your relationship and cut your losses before it goes the wrong way for you personally.

[beefcakebradybatson]

He's being a boy.

[Asker]

and that means?

[beefcakebradybatson]

We boys LOVE ogling buxom babes !!!

[Asker]

even if you have a girlfriend you would still follow bikini girls?

[BobbyLee789]

When I follow them I get hard

[Anonymous]

Yeah he’s a piece of shit.

[Opinion Owner]

Follow a bunch of male models see how his ass likes it

[In_Trance]

smh... stop it