I like a woman who's 11 years older than me, is that odd?

[Anonymous]

I'm 28 and she's 39, we've been on quite a few dates and I really like her, she says she's my girlfriend now.

[Anonymous]

No. Not at all. Just make sure she’s doesn’t have a lot of issues. If she’s cute, gorgeous according to a majority of men and still single at that age, chances are she’s got some issues. I say this because when a girl is pretty or cute or sexy or whatever it is men want to call it, those types of women usually have no problems attracting men. But if she’s still single chances are it’s something about her personality that a lot of men said nope not for me. They’d fuck her but they won’t commit to her if that makes sense.

[Asker]

Well on our first date, she did gargle her drink for like a minute straight in the restaurant.

[Opinion Owner]

lol I don’t know bro tread lightly

[Asker]

Yeah lol, apparently her quirkiness has turned other guys off and we got some looks at the restaurant, but I stuck it out anyway.

[Summeroflove]

Well there is nothing wrong being attracted to someone what matters if you’re both happy. If you put the merit of a relationship in what others think people will judge you no matter what you do. So worry about if you’re happy and she’s happy together

[Anonymous]

11 years is nothing. I turn 41 in a few days and I have a 21 year old after me (posting as anon because with my luck he posts on here and I don’t want him to see me). But to answer the question, no it’s not weird. You like who you like 😊. I say the same thing to the men who prefer younger women. As long as it doesn’t matter to either one of you, who cares?

[Asker]

I was nervous she wouldn't be into dating me because of the age difference, but I just took a shot one day and gave her flowers and she loved them, then agreed to go out.

[Fireguy17]

no, it can go both ways.
I had a LTR with someone 11 years younger, we met, and I never did ask her how old she was until later, I either asked or found out, but we got along just fine so to me it wasn't weird.
As you get older 11 years isn't that much of a difference, so don't worry about it.

[MannMitAntworten]

Odd? No. Enjoy yourself and quit dwelling on your age difference before you end up sabotaging your relationship.

[tzdc21]

You're both over 18, and you like each other. Nothing wrong.

[Pterodon]

Not really. I’ve dated cougars as much as 15 years older than me when I was younger

[WhitneySnow]

That’s great!

[Anonymous]

Odd for her, maybe.

[Anonymous]

It's a little weird.

[Anonymous]

No, older women are to be cherished you lucky boy

[DrPepper12]

No. Just no