Do men still take the time to write their ladies a love letter from the heart or is this a thing of the past?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I believe writing a heartfelt message isn’t a thing of the past, when you love someone you aren’t afraid to let it all out and show her/him how much they mean to you above all others.

It isn’t being ‘feminine’ or ‘weak’ or ‘soft’, it is showing your woman what makes her special to you and how she makes you feel which really is important since she loves to be adored, thought of, and appreciated also most importantly loved since you are the man she wants forever so make that forever more grounded in matters of the heart.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

I do think it means something to write a letter. Because it takes more time to write out a letter then it does to type something out and send it. It depends on the man all men are different as well as how they show as well as express love. Some do some don’t.

anon1903 · Accepted Answer

If we are just talking about heartfelt messages, my brother tends to write them from time to time, whenever he goes out, to my mom. He really thinks we'd wreck the house in his absence. It's sweet but stupid.

In romantic relationships? I guess you can say it's long dead tradition

Pearl222 · Accepted Answer

I really wish men still did that…but so far have never been on the receiving end of a handwritten letter. As an old school romantic, I find this gesture really sweet!

LiaRaven · Answer

They write love letters but not from the heart, from somewhere else lol

Simslover92 · Answer

My ex did to the new girl he's seeing but not to me.

Shiprex · Answer

I have done and maybe should do more often but it's corny now as shared Google docs aren't the same as the real thing.

I usually do something for special occasions like anniversary (we actually have a monthlyversary as well on 2nd of each month)

exitseven · Answer

I used to do this a lot. that was 30 years ago. I do not think anybody still does it. It;s too bad because just the ritual of writing the letter, putting in n envelope and sealing it and putting s stamp on it. Then i would put a couple of lines from a poem or a song on the back. All that would somehow make me feel better.

demonics · Answer

Probably shit like this is why they don't.

Do men still take the time to write their ladies a love letter from the heart or is this a thing of the past?

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dragoblack · Answer

Not really. With the amount of ladies who don't fully appreciate what men do for them , she will more than likely read it then go "now what am i supposed to do with it. You could have sent this to me via a text" its better to just show ones love through actions than waste the time, effort, and paper.

molonski2 · Answer

I certainly Do , but more importantly I'm very happy to read that some much younger people are doing so too , be careful on timing of course , but nothing beats a hand written note or card from the heart.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I don't think so.. my ex wrote me some really cute and nice things when we first were dating. I think it is only something that a guy who really likes you and is romantic will do.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

A lot of them do, but probably not on a 📜 anymore, in general. Pen & paper went out of fashion, but romanticism doesn't need paper or any specific material, it is timeless and unbreakable.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'd think that, with cell phones, e-mail and other instant forms of communication, they aren't really needed, anymore. Why spend the time composing and mailing one which might take a week to get there when you can just tell them almost immediately?

bddddd · Answer

I think the time has passed. I say that regretfully. I recently uncovered a clutch of love letters from 30 years ago. They are beautiful. But I think that will never happen in my life at least again.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Some men do... I've done that before. Totally had the shit used against me later, but I don't regret it

loveyouoak · Answer

Writing love letters is, of course, a thing of the past. Instead of a love letter, men can simply write long and nice messages to ladies.

Godihateyou · Answer

In old. Wasted too much of my time telling a bitch how I feel. They don't fucking care. Stop wasting your time children. They don't want to know how you feel. They just want you to provide and die.

DrPepper12 · Answer

I channel my inner author for cards but not letters

Jeff51 · Answer

Not me. It's like my singing. people will run.

Anonymous · Answer

Some men probably do. But not all of us have the chance.

DawnB · Answer

They do from prison

BonbonEmpress · Answer

Mine very much does

alice55 · Answer

some do most don't

biraileeşkadını · Answer

That is a very special thing.

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

id hope none. id burn it if someone sent me one.

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

That's a rare man 💌

lilpumkinstar · Answer

My ex use to, when I asked him.

MiaKhan1234567 · Answer

Great to see so many men open to the idea

WonderingManII · Answer

I would try!

fish5505_87 · Answer

I do it, every valentines day!

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I do.

Do men still take the time to write their ladies a love letter from the heart or is this a thing of the past?

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