In Long distance relationships, do you think writing handwritten love letters are rare?

[Alxve]

I have had LDRs before, but I dont really know how common is partners writting handwritten letters for each other during monthsary or aniversary?
I think its common? Since I see people do it but I dont know.
What do you guys think?

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[egan3141]

I still hear about the concept of hand written letters but I have never heard of anyone that does it. My neighbor moved away to get another degree "recently" and I actually sent her a letter. Just a regular letter, not a love letter. She is slow in everything she does, so we've only exchanged a few, but we now exchange letters now. Letters are awesome and people should do them more often. The only real problem is they take time, and most people aren't willing to put in that time. But hey, if they are willing to put in that time, it tells you they care a good amount

[Alxve]

But do you think its rare nowadays in long distance?

[egan3141]

Well, considering I've never heard about actually happening, I think that should answer your question...

[Alxve]

I had a stupid question,
Would you live for that love letters which is handwritten and rare and also get disrespected in a relationship?

[egan3141]

Please ask again with better grammar

[Alxve]

Okay, Shakespeare.
I was asking that, will you be willing to stay in a relationship in which you are disrespected but you know very well that the partner you have has rare qualities like handwritten letters.

[egan3141]

You are the one that made an incoherent question. With this clarification, hell no. Anyone that chooses a relationship because of 1 quality is dumb

[Alxve]

I am sorry if my question was illogical. But I would liked it if you were more respectful.
If you couldnt understand my question a sorry or pardon works.
People dont go around correcting others grammar mistakes.
At the end, humans make mistakes.
If you want more pronounced grammar, its better for you to talk to gemini.

[egan3141]

Dude, look at what you wrote. it's like 5 difference sentences had random phrases mashed into one. It's looks like something you would hear from someone suffering from dementia.
"i think so sorry to me and should be said and rude if you and problem". That type of talking is incoherent. Not only that, why the fuck would I apologize when I was kind enough to say please?

[Alxve]

I guess thats how you talk naturally to people.
English is not my first language.
Its natural for me to have bad grammar. I am not a nerd to sit with a perfect grammar.
I just have to convey. Maybe sometimes they are tangled but most of the people understand.
But yes if you have problems dont
bother commenting on my posts.

[egan3141]

Not really a surprise, and it's okay to be learning a language, but I kindly asked you to make your question something I could understand and you got mad about that. YOU are the one with a problem.

[Alxve]

I am sorry but there is a difference in speaking my native language and a language I practice.
If I speak my native language, even if you know my native language won't understand it well.
So just dont go to people saying to fix grammar. Those people could have that as a hard learned language. You can't expect a chinese to speak fluent English.
But yes I was speaking bare minimum.

[egan3141]

I never asked for fluent speak. You had a question, I was willing to answer it. I can't do so if I don't know what the question IS. Why are you so mad someone couldn't understand you?

[Alxve]

I am not mad.
But saying "Please ask again with better grammar"
Is disrespectful..
I wrote a lot of forums and helped a lot of people with my broken grammar.
They didn't had any issue with reading what I wanted to convey.
Atlast, Sorry to me if I was rude.
If you have difficulty understanding my English, A simple "Sorry, Could you explain or elaborate?" goes a long way fam.

[egan3141]

I said please. Get over yourself. Next time I'll say "wtf is wrong with you? you having a stroke?"

[Alxve]

See, thats the real you.
Well its a shame that a 26 year old holds less maturity to speak than a 19 year old.
I literally explained you the question.
By "Okay, Shakespeare."
That offended you but yes sure.

[egan3141]

I didn't realize maturity meant groveling to anyone that feels you didn't treat them highly enough for existing

[Alxve]

Never asked for your validation.
Anyways, can't talk much to someone who got offended by "Okay, Shakespeare"
Funny..

[egan3141]

No, you demanded my apology for not treating you like a king or master or something. That's what annoyed me.

[Alxve]

Oh thats not called throning someone. Its called "Basic Manners".
I think you skipped that chapter in life.
Usually when people make mistakes they say sorry. But egoistic people never admit they are at fault A classic...

[egan3141]

Except no mistake was made. That's why I said you want king treatment. I said please, and that wasn't enough for you. Most people wouldn't even need a please. Yet despite saying please, that still wasn't good enough for you. What kind of world do you live in that you think it's normal for people to kowtow to you like this?

[Alxve]

I dont live in fantasy.
Maybe I am too formal for someone who doesn't understand basic manners. Asking for sorry isn't king treatment but rather than a basic manner.
Its practised by everyone in the world they dont scream king or queen treatment.
Plus, "Please" is a request not a appology.
Also dont quote "Please". Quote the whole sentence. People see the bigger picture. Dont paint yourself the innocent one.
I hope you have used correct age details to login to this website.
I mean I wouldn't mind if you were 12years old or something.
Going around telling people to fix grammar. Bro its 2025, everything is shortened. You to u , I dont know to I don't know.
This is a forum not a courtroom.

[egan3141]

You can use all the A. I. you want to create your responses, you are still delusional.

[Alxve]

My grammar so good that you needed to call it a A. I.
Thanks for the compliment.
By the way here is prompt
"Generate comebacks for a smart 19 year old who is more mature than me and I feel dumb."

[egan3141]

You can't even figure out why I noticed it was A. I. xD

[Alxve]

isn't it a compliment?
I write so good grammar that you forget that I am a human after all.
We have been there.
I have handled many disrespectful rude people so your not my first rodeo.

[egan3141]

A. I. is NOT a compliment. Do you actually think A. I. is good at being human? There are SOO many tells A. I. has to separate it from humans.

[Alxve]

"There are soo many tells AI has to separate it from humans"
What does that even mean bro?
Are you okay?
Is your chatgpt premium service expired?
The grammar and logic doesn't add up but yeah.
A. I is a a sort of compliment. Shows that the person has a good sense of grammar and perfectionalism.
We are not completely machines but some people talk in a beautiful grammar that you forget its human but not A. I.

[egan3141]

Alright, I'm done entertaining your delusion. I hope some day you learn what it means to treat someone as your equal and stop expecting everyone to revere you

[Alxve]

Lol sure.
I hope you grow up be more mature.
And learn basic manners from 5 year olds.
Dont be a internet boomer.
If your commenting on a post be respectful thats all.
Good luck, Shakespeare.

[sage2021]

When I was in a LDR we didn't have cellphones yet, but we did talk on a regular phone. ☎️ So we wrote each other letters a lot and sent each greeting cards too.
I still have a good friend and we write ✍🏼 each other letters still.
Nothing wrong with it. In fact getting a letter 💌 from someone in the mail is kinda cool because you can read it as many times as you want to, and it's from someone special.❤️

[SoccerPlayer99]

I think this is a lost art that can work well for people who are interested in it. If you both like it, do it to it!

[In_Trance]

You're 19 and you've had more than 1?

I call bullshit

[Alxve]

What? What I had more than 1?

[Anonymous]

Yes, in modern times, handwritten letters are kinda rare.

[Anonymous]

I did that for Danielle

[Alxve]

What

[Opinion Owner]

🤦🤦‍♀️🤦‍♂️are you a special kind of stupid son?

[Alxve]

What does that mean bro?

[Opinion Owner]

Bro it's your question you tell me bro