Why would a guy often ask what’s your body count even though y’all never dated and you don’t feel comfortable talking about it?

[Anonymous]

[Zack-Bann]

Just out of the blue?
Or while talking about sex and exes?


Because out of the blue is a red flag. His vision is warped by BS messages he learned online


But within a normal conversation it’s a fair question.
If you’re uncomfortable talking about it that would imply shame and it does speak to your character if or not you’re ashamed by how big (or small) the number is.


I would say just own it. It’s a bell you can’t unring.
He either accepts it or doesn’t


Also it’s better to dare someone who has a similar number that way neither of you can say a thing about the other

[Asker]

Out of the blue

[ohsheeT]

This is The mentality of a guy knowing all the above. It's his way of starting a flirt. Lol in stead of asking you out or something lol.. well and if you did go out with him I could only imagine the conversation where he would take it or not, take it

[PeachyPie93]

I suppose he is curious and you not being able say makes it seem like its a lot. Perhaps he is interested in you since I never asked a guy I was only friends with that question.

[Fanfare690]

These types of men are insecure... I wouldn't waste your time

[Anonymous]

He's nosy. I can't tell you how many women have asked me when I lost my V card. It doesn't necessarily mean anything. They're just being nosy. Tell em to f*** off. Politely if you wish. But I personally see no need to be. If they think that's correct behavior I'd have no problem telling them to f*** off.

[ProbablyClueless]

Because he's being a pushy asshole. That's who he is as a person.

[jahaims]

He wants to fuck and wants to see how easy you are or he likes you and wants to make sure you aren't a broken whore.

[Alex-Snow]

That is kinda rude and it is none of his dam business. I'd dump him and move on.

[BarryLiverstone]

Only time I ever hear about body count is on manosphere podcasts. Does he watch them?

[MzAsh]

He’s looking for metrics to judge you with.

[Jeff51]

Done say it if you don't feel comfortable

[zombiewoof]

Not his business, tell him that