If a guy wants to know your body count and about your ex’s does that means he’s insecure? He said he asked out of curiosity?

[Anonymous]

[molonski2]

ABSOLUTELY not !

He wants to know that you are not a complete SLUT , if the count falls to SLUT status then this attitude will change completely , body count is a vital piece of criteria to know upfront.

[BarryLiverstone]

What count becomes slut status?

[molonski2]

@BarryLiverstone
What age are we talking Barry? For a female

[BarryLiverstone]

The askers at most 24 years old. So let’s say for a 24 year old person what BC is slut status?

[Neallyaa]

@BarryLiverstone im 19 by the way

[molonski2]

@BarryLiverstone
NO..18 - 24 female , massive difference , not 24 .

[molonski2]

@Neallyaa
Going off the picture now not annon.. its a man pretending to be female.. surprise , surprise.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok so for a 19 year old woman, what BC is slut status? You are the one who originally mentioned there is a # that makes her a slut so I’m asking what is that #?

[Asker]

That’s sting from wcw 😂

[Asker]

Im literally an fan of sting that’s why he’s my pfp😂😂😂😂im a girl by the way

[spartan55]

@BarryLiverstone
Funny he keeps ducking your question.

[molonski2]

@spartan55
What question? What is SLUT status for a 19 year old? For a female

[spartan55]

Yes... what's the magic number?

[molonski2]

@spartan55
Ohh mate , I have to think back a long way..
19 year old female = say 8 to 10 , at 10 she's a serious SLUT.

[spartan55]

Interesting.

[BarryLiverstone]

8 is a slut, that’s not what I expected to hear.. and to be clear when we say bodies are you saying only people she has had intercourse with or do you include oral sex and any other sexual activity?

[molonski2]

@BarryLiverstone
No , she has to have fcked them or blown them..

Fck mate.. How high do you want the numbers if you include all else?
Mine are high enough.. but imagine if all that was included..

And I said 8 - 10 for a 19 year old female , thats pretty high , she has a long way to go.!

[BarryLiverstone]

Personally I don’t slut shame and think a persons past isn’t 100% a guarantee of how they will act moving forward.. not only do people mature and learn from experiences but some have unresolved trauma and some have been forced into bad situations.

Therefore no, if a 19 year old person has given 8 blow jobs to guys she’s been seeing (let’s say 2 times a year since she was 16) I wouldn’t see her as a slut.

[molonski2]

@BarryLiverstone
Well in reality , she has fcked 10 guys and given 10 blow jobs.
Barry boy , you will learn soon enough , but ( sadly ) people dont change , and SLUTS will always remain SLUTS , whether you and I like it or not.
Association is everything.

[BarryLiverstone]

Guess I will always be a slit then

[molonski2]

@BarryLiverstone
Okey , good luck then mate.. have a nice time.

[BarryLiverstone]

Thank you sir

[itsannalee]

Insecure of what? Lol
People maybe just curious, or just want to know that you fit to his criteria and type or not. Some people prefer to be with woman who has less body count not because insecure, but because like nobody likes to buy a lock that can be opened with any random key.

[molonski2]

@itsannalee
Beautifully put , with vastly more tact that I.
Thanks.

[pumpseedinmyholes]

My girl is facing me riding me taking me anal telling me how she was used and by who knowing it turns he on

[spartan55]

That's a ridiculous question to ask before you even go on a date. I'd be put off if I were you.

[Neallyaa]

Yeah I am

[Neallyaa]

But people were saying he wanted to know if I had an std. He could literally just ask for std test.

[spartan55]

Again WAY too early for that type of talk and very inappropriate too.

[Neallyaa]

Yeah I was thinking about confronting him about it but I might just block him. Then get my number changed.

[spartan55]

A bit of an extreme course of action, but anyway...

[Neallyaa]

He really isn’t respecting my boundaries asking these questions over 3 times. Its time for me to move on.

[spartan55]

I think that's a smart decision.

[Neallyaa]

Yeah

[BarryLiverstone]

That may depend on how well you know him and what the context was. Like have you been on dates with him yet?

[Neallyaa]

He met on social media and we haven’t dated yet

[BarryLiverstone]

If that’s the case then it’s highly likely he is mimicking things he’s heard on sm or what other guys have said. Asking about BC before you actually meet and go on dates seems a bit odd personally. Like why would he care about that until he knows you takes have chemistry yk

[jahaims]

No, it means he is figuring out what kind of person you are.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Perhps he doesn't want to risk STDs, but he may also be insecure.

[Anonymous]

He's as insecure as much as she is ashamed.

[Asker]

Im not ashamed by the way

[Opinion Owner]

Well he's likely not insecure. Women oversimplify things when it comes to this. Having standards/boundaries is not insecurity. He's simply trying vet you.

[Opinion Owner]

If you truly not ashamed as you say then you need to be honest and upfront about it. And trust him.

[Asker]

He literally said he used to constantly ask girls before where they at, what they doing, and can he see them and other stuff.

[Opinion Owner]

Your point? I don't understand what you're driving at?