It is odd that a guy would ask you about your body count, or how you lost your virginity, out of the blue. Also, this is a subject a guy would only discuss with a female friend if they were very good friends, for a long time, and something led up to the discussion and question. And then, only if there was a clear history of trust and emotional (not sexual) history between them. This guy may have been angling to get in your pants, and was testing the waters. Re. he was like every other guy. Believe it or not, but not every guy friend want to get in the pants of his female friends. Yes, many do, but far from all.
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Tell him “I must’ve misunderstood your intentions, but if you’re looking for a casual hookup, then you need to look elsewhere because that’s not me. I feel as if you’re disrespecting me with this approach and it makes me feel uncomfortable. I liked talking to you before. I think we should just be up front and end things if this is what you want out of this, because I wanted something entirely different. It’s best to be honest now.”
Boom. You were straight-forward. You were confident. You showcased self value and let him know you will not settle to be just another slut. You let him know you’re above that.
I don't know. Probably because there has been a lot of questions on body counts here lately. It seems like everyone thinks it's their business when it is no one's but the person you are considering to be married to. I'm not sure but I would think no girl would like to hear these words:
Yeah he’s a pervert. Any guy who asks that isn’t worth the trouble.
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Well he probably was thinking about taking you seriously. I'm gonna be honest with you. No guy wants a woman who's been ran through for a relationship. They'll have sex with you, but they won't commit IF you have a high body count.
Yo it’s really just a conversation question. Like asking “what’s your type?” They’re personal questions that have a lot of “conversationability” I might’ve made that word up but it means opportunities for conversation or like talking points
Probably because he was curious and was just wondering?
Because he wanted to know if you were quality or if you were just another hole.
Maybe to see your experience
some guys can get intimidated by a girl with lots of experienceBeing that you are Asian, he probably assumed you spent at least a couple of years as a prostitute. Maybe he was just curious about how business was?
specificially, what do you mean you picked the guy?
its something you ask if you wanna get serious
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