If someone is unsure about you would you still chase them?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

I don’t “chase” anyone I’m not into playing games I know that if someone genuinely wants to be with me that they will put equal effort into me. There are people who want people to chase them to feed their egos, there are people who just aren’t good at telling someone they aren’t into them so they play little games stringing someone along, and sone people just genuinely don’t know what they want yet.

As for someone who just genuinely isn’t sure and you just met that person I would probably be asking the same questions she is. The only difference is communication verses someone who beats around the bush and isn’t really honest about how they feel. Good or bad… If time goes on and she still isn’t sure I’ll leave the ball in her court but at first yeah I completely understand.

I think it comes down to I'm not wasting my time or the time of someone else. If someone wants me they will put effort people who waste their time chasing people who are playing games or just really aren’t that into them tend to waste their lives playing games.

[Zack-Bann]

Depends. Do I have a chainsaw or a machete in that scenario?


Oh you mean romantically chase …


If they’re “unsure” I wouldn’t write them off because what’s making them doubt might be something I can influence


But I wouldn’t “chase” it still needs to be a halfway meeting

[PeachyPie93]

I seen enough to know if they aren't choosing you up front and with their actions, they don't actually want you. So drop them. Guys love to pretend they care but you see it blatantly in their actions so never fall for the bs they say.

[Avicenna]

Maybe. Depends on how interested I am in her.

[Shiprex]

Nah, women who aren't putting in any effort to make it worthwhile or reciprocating effort in communications as well as be clear in their intention aren't worth putting out for.

[Anonymous]

Every girl was sure that she just wants to friend-zone me.

But I was never the one who is actually "chasing", I prefer dominant girls who like to take initiative.

[Asker]

Lol why?

[Opinion Owner]

Because dominant girls turn me on ;)

[Asker]

Lol you're into some of kind of weird bdsm sh*t?
Or were you abused as a kid?

[Opinion Owner]

No, I prefer vanilla domination, i'm not into bdsm.

[Asker]

Oh okay. Do you happen to be a stripper?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope.

[shortster]

I don't chase people, that sounds creep-like behavior.

[slatyb]

I don't chase. I ask once and accept her answer.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Usually that depends on the individual

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately, yes.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i would never chase someone

[Anonymous]

I don't chase.

[jahaims]

Chasing is immature