Girls, How do I know if my girlfriend has crossed the line with my man?

[Sparklight]

Ok, I have a question. Here lately, my friend who is a girl is getting very very comfortable with the guy that I am dating. He seems to reciprocate. Do you think this is me being protective and jealous? Am I overacting. I like my friend and I love the boyfriend that I date. How should I handle this. Have you ever had a problem like this, and what did you do. Thanks.

[Genie23]

What do you mean by very, very comfortable? What did they do?

Never happened in my case but some girls felt upset or jealous when I would sometimes talk to their partner in front of them sometimes (never texted, called or met them alone) or when their partner would mention me and express wanting to talk to me or did something for me and I called these guys as Brothers and they saw me as a little sister. So, we had this close dynamics but in a brother sisterly way. However, my then girl friends didn't express anything to me but turns out they fought with their boyfriends because they didn't like our bonding.

So, my point being it's possible that they have a harmless bond but then again I don't know everything. So, if you feel very uncomfortable then you should just express to your guy first that you feel uneasy when they speak/act act that way and tell your friend too. Communication is the key.

[Sparklight]

@Genie23 yes we must communicate. I may be overreacting, but I don't really know.

[Genie23]

Maybe 😅 That's why I asked you what did they do/what did they say to each other or what's their body language like because in some cases it's just misunderstanding. In other cases, it isn't and you need to express how you feel and let them know the boundary.

[PeachyPie93]

I'd talk to them about it maybe even record their interactions between them so they can see how off putting they look together. Always trust your gut, girl friends always love to go for your men..

[Sparklight]

@PeachyPie93 yes they do. Don't they?

[Lilly1979]

They an’t good friends. A real friend would never do that.