Do men think women are annoying?

Question

I have the feeling that a lot of men just try to bear with women because they want something. Someone told me yesterday that I am annoying but he still keeps up with me. That made me so insecure. by the way rate my lazy Sunday breakfast

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

I can't speak for others, but I generally do. I'll try to break it down.

Common interests? I'm experienced, so I don't exactly get excited when a 'pick me' starts pretending she has one just in a futile attempt to get me to believe "she's not like the other ones." Posers can only pose for so long and eventually the truth will come out... she's not into that, just the social aspects of that. But that's females that are aware and are purposely manipulating for attention.

The trade-off between males and females usually breaks down to the male constantly having that one thing buzzing in their mind and the female on a constant quest for attention. It's why I laugh when a female assumes a dude is "just her friend and really nice" simply because she likes the attention... because she's just gotta know the real reasons for the friendliness and why she's being treated so nice somewhere in the back of her mind. That juicy "attention" is just so good though. I digress...

Look... no 'real' common interests, says nothing that is really interesting, obsessed with getting attention, and on a basic level is always just like the others. They do nothing special most of the time, so just imagine being me...

Be me, when I'm not interested in that one thing at all. Imagine what it is like, listening to her vapid main character complex takes on everything, and she literally offers nothing of value unless she is making me a sandwich or something else.

Again... I'm not speaking for other men. This is all me, and EXACTLY how I feel about 95% of the time. When I do have an interest in that one thing (we all know what that is), I have to fight my own primal brain so that I'm not just like all the simps out there and fall into the same traps that simps fall into on a constant basis. When that one thing is removed from the picture, women typically don't add anything of value to anything. They just test everything and consume resources, time and energy as they go with a end result of their feelings and not much else.

So not just annoying, but also generally useless. It's kinda of like watching a child, but with extra steps.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Some women are annoying. Some men are annoying. It's less about gender and more about individual behavior.

That said, there are some topics most men aren't going to care about and aren't really interested in talking about. He likely isn't going to be interested in fashion, makeup, or the relationships of people he barely knows, for example. But he also knows that you probably don't care about things that are important to him. The difference is that most men don't try to tell their girlfriends or wives about their programming subroutines, rebuilding the carburetor on the lawnmower, or the structural plans for the deck, because they realize she won't be interested, and he doesn't want to annoy her.

Obviously there are many things in your life that your man does care about, so it's not that you can never talk to him, but you should think about the topics you bring up and make sure it's something he's gonna do care about. He isn't going to care what kind of sleeves a dress has, and won't even know what the terms mean, so those kinds of discussions should be saved for your mom or girl friends.

naartjie · Accepted Answer

10/10 breakfast and you look gorgeous!
But yes unfortunately men do think women are annoying and at this rate I do believe that men just put up with us to get what they want.
The good men are very few nowadays…

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Some women JUST ARE annoying... (And same goes for guys.)

Finchie40 · Answer

Some yes , but not all, just depends on the chemistry and connection I share with her , Some girls’ bitch and complain about everything so that can be annoying , but girls’ that don’t bitch and complain all the time , aren’t annoying to me whatsoever , and they are fun to be around

Summeroflove · Answer

All men and women are different as well as the fact there is plenty of things men do that annoy women as well. Obviously there are people out there who use people but at the end of the day some people aren’t a good fit for one another it’s about compatibility. So just because one person thinks you’re annoying doesn’t mean everyone does.

It depends on what way you’re annoying really.

ohsheeT · Answer

If course but only in the best way with a smile and love

MannMitAntworten · Answer

No. At least the women whose company I choose to keep I do not. Of course there are annoying women just as there are annoying men. The most annoying individual I must deal with is a man. Granted to me he feels more like a child with gray hair who requires constant looking after. It is exhausting. Example, yesterday’s protest … he goes out to where protesters are marching and yells profanities at them and is flipping his two middle fingers at them. I am sent a text of him doing this all while wearing our business shirt! A few customers approach me about his behavior. Thankfully his son was there to wrangle him before he did something extra stupid than he already was. He pulls this idiocy and then wonders why business is slow. I can only shake my head….

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

It's not gendered to me, and it's the land of confusion we live in so... I think some people want

Love, but they're not self-aware, so they try using sex, hoping it will work?
Sex, and they are aware, but they have to project "love" to get sex more easily?
Company at all costs, so they will compromise with everything I guess?
A beautifying mirror, to look at, which does not tolerate stains in general?

On the other hand, what I'd find more interesting, more on point, is hearing about how this specific guy elaborates, articulates. Because basing anything on one non-elaborated sentence thrown at you isn't that wise. It's even particularly unwise if your confidence isn't high.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I find 99% of the entire human population to be very annoying.
I only get along with people on a daily basis if they are similar enough to me to not have to put up with anything that I don't want to deal with.

So yeah, most women are annoying, and most men, but I'm not willing to put up with them for longer than it takes to buy something at a store.

If I ever get married, sh'es going to be the "one in a million" type of girl, an extreme rarity that would from both a practical and emotional point of view, be irreplacable.

NathanDavis · Answer

generally speaking... people are not annoying, some definitely are... but it has little or nothing to do with their gender, lol

if you were told you are annoying... maybe they did refer to the moment and within one context... and felt annoyed by you, in the moment

for example... "you're annoying me... " is different from "you are an annoying person"

Ironic_Method · Answer

Many men do find women annoying. I just happen to find most people annoying. Fortunately I spend a TON of time with my wife and just want more. 10/10 easy breakfast that's delicious is a complete win.

Sonorous · Answer

I think the genders tend to be more annoying to each other because the blatant brain differences. The only reasons why so many are paired up is because they're horn dogs. If their libidos went away & they felt nothing for each other, I highly doubt men & women would just be hanging around each other much. In other words, when couples aren't fuckin, they're probably arguin.

RavVid · Answer

Unless they being sexual to us, I think it is a YES.

I meet up with some mates once a month and we like to talk about world affairs. Sometimes a woman, who knows us, comes up to us to talk about her. Women always talk about themselves - sometimes directly, sometimes indirectly.

Always annoying though.

OneViewpoint · Answer

I think a lot of people are annoying. Male and female. On the other hand, I've been told I can be exhausting by a lot of other people. Don't let it bother you. Ask yourself why you need everyone to like you. All you need is a precious few. Let the irrelevant many go.

McLlovin · Answer

The only women that are annoying are the ones that pretend like they dont need a man. They’re the ones that need the most love and need one the most. I see through their facade. And also feminist. They are just angry single women. The reasonable women are not annoying compared to them.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

No, most men adore women always to a fault.. Yeah y'all have some annoying habits, and a lot of men act as if they don't care for you, but that's more reactive, and it's simply not true.. Now women on the other hand, do act like most men are an annoyance..

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Sometimes, but we generally like women a great deal.

Some of the giddiness and excitability of how women act can be a little annoying. And I have to admit that a LOT of women are much more controlling than they realize.

I don't think it particularly bothers me.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

Some women are very difficult and gold diggers but some women are very loyal and good in their relationships not every woman is the same and I am sure the man who tells you these things likes you

genericname85 · Answer

i don't think they are overall annoying. there's certainly some aspects that are annoying and some individuals may be especially annoying. but that doesn't mean that i think they are overall annoying.

FreyaRed · Answer

When you don't need steady attention and can find something that you do alone for hours, they feel instantly neglected.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Some probably more so than others. Personally, I'm more annoyed by the "I am woman, hear me roar and if you don't, it's 'cuz  you're afraid of me! " types than anything else.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Nice breakfast! Some guys think we’re annoying, but others really try to understand us.

glennos89 · Answer

I dont think woman are annoying in general. But woman like these new school type of feminists can be pretty annoying sometimes for real. But there are plenty of woman out there who are very nice and pleasant to be with

Shiprex · Answer

Not always but sometimes and the breakfast looks fruity and healthy. I had something cereal myself

Jackblue · Answer

On occasion, but you can also be fun and I am not just talking about the bedroom. Women are often fun to hang out with.

jshm2 · Answer

Some can be annoying. But your friend is trying to neg you. Don't let him spike your drink.  You should feel ashamed for eating that as a "breakfast".

DonaldDarko · Answer

They have to be dumb or ghetto or a girly girl or something to be annoying. you can't just run into a random woman and guarantee she'll be annoying.

WonderingManII · Answer

I think some women are annoying and some are not. One problem I have is that some women think I'm annoyed by them when I'm really not. Maybe I give off that vibe because I'm tired from something else.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Your breakfast looks like red slop, but for the most part no men don't think women are annoying, some might find women complicated but I believe both genders struggle to understand each other at times which leads to complications.

Anonymous · Answer

It's a good question

I don't find my wife so much annoying. I low key hate her from all the 25 years together.
Maybe it's more than annoying.

Since the two kids are mostly grown up, I'm not sure my wife is important to me any more.

All that sounds bad but that's the truth. Don't worry about her though she's tough as nails.

We have distant relationship. Obviously I need sex and I'm looking around. It's funny existence.

beenherebefore · Answer

I'm a woman and think most woman are annoying LOL.

MrChinaski · Answer

I would not use the word 'annoying', but you do tend to talk a lot, on average.

exitseven · Answer

Some can be annoying. Just like some guys can be annoying.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

All men think the same. No exceptions. All women indeed are annoying. No exceptions. Your breakfast: doesn't look like one to me :D

Staximus · Answer

Most men aren't going to say all women are annoying, they're going to judge them on the individual basis like a normal person would

AndrésC64 · Answer

Well that's a pretty sexist thing to say. Do women stay with men just because they want something?

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

In your case depends on the tone he said that you are annoying. Well in general they are 🫠

foxsquirrell · Answer

Some are very annoying, but some are a nice to be around. can't say that they are all annoying.

cheating-test_com · Answer

I would say they are not annoying by default, but they definitely can be. In my opinion, it depends on the guy standing in front of her — if he allows her to be annoying, she will be.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

They can be, but they can also be frustrating.

Dongie · Answer

Yes, for the most part. We put up with a LOT of crap just for their looks.

LiamJHayden · Answer

People are individuals. Some are annoying to me, most are not.

MangakaJ96 · Answer

It depends on which individual woman for me. I don’t think all women are annoying.

jahaims · Answer

It depends on the individual. It has nothing to do with gender

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

And they think us annoying.(Sometimes correctly, in my case !!!)

Anonymous · Answer

No, but it depends on what men, and what women.

Anonymous · Answer

About as much as women think men don't listen.

Apple1996 · Answer

People in general are annoying

In_Trance · Answer

Some are, some aren't

alice55 · Answer

I never heard this being said

Anonymous · Answer

Girl you need to gain weight you are thin. It is so bad for your health 😠

TwoToTooTutu2 · Answer

Certain traits are certainly annoying

Blackcat1952 · Answer

Just as much the guys are

MrZameer · Answer

no boobs 😥😢😥😢😥😥

Jeff51 · Answer

When wife nags I do.

CubaPirate · Answer

Some are some aren't

dustybiker2 · Answer

Yes.

Anonymous · Answer

You’re allowed to seem like a female

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I don’t

Cherrysherrylady · Answer

Some do

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Sometimes

grega239 · Answer

Yup.

hello4433 · Answer

Yes.

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