I see no rational reason to enter a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I don’t really have a need for relationships. Like, I can’t rationally think of a strong reason to be in one. I might like somebody, maybe even find them hot, but why do I have to make them my boyfriend? I don’t need to spend days with someone. What could we be possibly doing? Someone give me a reason that would actually make sense.

[Miristheiss]

Family.

The world is made up of families. Parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins.

People get together for companionship, intimacy, being known and to know someone on a deep level, enjoyment of each others company and personality. Oneness.

And for sex. Sex brings kids, kids need families.

Since they came out with the pill in 1970, if you want to get on that and fuck around your whole life and never have kids or a family then I guess you don't have any reason.

People are designed, hard wired to have relationships. Even if it is just your friends. No one wants to be alone. Do you plan on the line ending with you? You have a mom right, a dad, do you have grandparents? A family line and family heritage? You plan on just ending your families heritage and to be alone, have no kids, no continuation of your family?

[Summeroflove]

At some points it’s okay to be single even if you choose to be the rest of your life. A relationship shouldn’t be built on superficial and materialistic reasons anyways.

I think people who don’t NEED a man or woman make better partners. Someone who just needs someone are the type of people to use someone. The people who just wait until they find someone they genuinely want and make that connection with one another. Much stronger and better

[HawkPerception]

I've noticed you mention no RATIONAL reasons to enter a relationship. Here's a list. In a HEALTHY relationship (if you're smart enough to filter who you partner is properly)

[Anonymous]

You're an avoidant attachment style, you don't want love and even if you had it you wouldn't know how to handle it, avoidants hardly if ever put in the effort, you'd just pull away and see it them as annoying and off putting over time for trying to see you everyday. I've wasted time on avoidants before they simple don't deserve love, I gave up with them kind and never looked back and I've never been happier, least you're aware and won't waste anyone's time which I think deserves some respect

[Anonymous]

Why? That's like me as a guy asking the same thing of women. How do you think most women are going to respond to that? I'll tell you how, "f*** off"! "It's not our job to inspire you to desire a relationship with us".😆

[Asker]

Am I asking you to? This is a website to inspire discussions, dummy

[Opinion Owner]

You're the one who asked the question you dunce. But now I think we understand why nobody wants you.👍😆

[abc3643]

Good! That's smart. I should have stayed that way when I was your age. I blew it though.

[Anonymous]

I use to have a similar opinion when I was younger, but I developed feelings.

[Asker]

I can think of emotional reasons but no rational ones

[jahaims]

You have a lot of unhealed trauma

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

i agree, thats why im staying single forever

[Kaneki05]

Then don't?

[Anonymous]

It's fine. Nobody cares