Why am I not enough? Why does he seek out other women all the time?

[Anonymous]

boyfriend of 15 years, love him, I work, clean house and give plenty of play time.

[naartjie]

Girlfriend for 15 years? 😳 he does not want you. He’d have married you after 2-3. Some people it’s fine and works where they don’t need a ring but they do just work well but this does not work well and evidently so since you’re unhappy and he’s literally cheating by seeking out women.
Why have you not left him? When he’s not there, pack his things so when he gets back you can tell him why his stuff is packed and it’s done. Girl he wasted 15 years of your life, got you doing wife duties and you don’t even have a ring while he’s lusting over other women.
Do yourself a favour, leave.
It is never too late to start over.
You deserve more than this.

[DishLady]

With pretty much NO details to work with it's impossible to know the answer to this.

[ohsheeT]

No the question is why do you want ton be with a like that.

This is not your Destiny this is your learning experience

Learn from it so you can move on

and be with the person that wants to be with you and treats you good

[OneViewpoint]

So why are you giving him a safe place to come back to? Seems like it's time this guy got a wakeup call.

[PeachyPie93]

I don't know.. I guess its because you accept his bs. You clean and cook for him and he can always go back to someone who loves him. It isn't that you are not enough for him it's just that you aren't his first choice so he is constantly looking for someone "better" to replace you, when he doesn't find that he comes back to you.

[Vevv123]

Because you’ve accepted it. You’ve stayed with him all the times right? and now it’s a commodity. He’s comfortable having what sounds like the perfect wife as well as be able to seek out other women without the worry of you leaving.

[Anonymous]

still just a girlfriend after 15 years, not good. you clean for him like his mother... you are useful to him when he needs you, but other than that you're just there to pick up after him. like, goddamn, leave!

[jahaims]

It has nothing to do with you. Cheaters cheat to cope with self hate

[hello4433]

He is taking you for granted cause you don't speak up

[Nikki1989]

Most men are hard-wired to cheat.

[nl171]

Maybe he’s a sex addict. That was my problem

[wkhan_87]

It's his sickness, not yours

[Anonymous]

Because you continue to put up with it

[Anonymous]

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