Why would a man keep lying saying he wants me and wants to marry me but is still searching for other girls and not giving me full attention. ?

[Farah88]

[OlderAndWiser]

Sounds like he has either cultivated you to be his backup plan, or he wants to sow some more wild oats before he settles down.

[catsmemoir]

Male mating strategy. A guy has to put all his nets out there. He'd be stupid to put all his eggs in one basket. Especially if you seem flakey/uncertain.

[Farah88]

I’m not uncertain. I’m very certain. And what does make a man put all his eggs in one basket?

[catsmemoir]

Have a pregnancy scare. See how he reacts. Then you'll know if he's ready to do that.

[Farah88]

We are religious. We don’t get physical

[californianjoe]

You can compare this situation to the situation of an athlete who is interested in 5 different sports and enjoys all of them.

[Anonymous]

He's full of crap?