Is a woman who likes to take charge in a relationship, appealing?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

That depends on your definition of taking charge or a relationship. If you mean being controlling no this is obviously wrong to be too controlling.

All relationships are different it’s okay for people to want to be compatible and have their own dynamics. As long as someone isn’t forcing it on the other.

For me personally I don’t want a woman who can’t use her words like a grown up it’s immature and I can’t be expected to be a mind reader. Be a straight shooter if you have a problem tell me. If you want something or need something just tell me.

[Asker]

Whatever you feel taking charge means to you in a relationship. I think as many have said, yes, you need to find what works for you and your partner and it can work for some and for others it would be a disaster, but you can't know until you experience it and learn if it's a yay or a nay.

[Summeroflove]

So that I agree with every relationship is different so sometimes people aren’t bad people they’re just not meant for one another. Doesn’t mean either person has a wrong way of thinking.

People need to focus more on compatibility so long as they aren’t trying to force people to conform to their ideas of a relationship

[Summeroflove]

But I also know that sometimes what someone wants can change. People can just date anyone until they keep getting hurt and being with people who don’t have anything to offer. So they get standards.

Others maybe have superficial standards Thst they just eventually learn aren’t true love. They find themselves in superficial and/or materialistic relationships that just aren’t worth it

[Zack-Bann]

I do like a woman who’s not a pushover
But I don’t like a woman who’s bossy and constantly nagging and always trying to get her way


My cousin in married to one such girl and it’s a miserable life of constant pussy whipping


I prefer moderation.
I want to date a responsible adult not a child but also expect to be treated as one myself

[DishLady]

Some guys like the more "dominant" (self assured) sort of woman; other guys like the "submissive" (who possibly doesn't "know" herself very well and doesn't care to so long as she has a man to define her... who is overly flexible in her identity and needs, etc.).

[DangerouslyCute]

I prefer partnership...

[OneViewpoint]

What do you mean by "taking charge"? Do you feel like it's your mission in life to shape me into the Ken Doll of your fantasies? You're gonna do a lot of crying! Do you mean you're willing to take responsibility and accountability for tasks and projects in a relationship? Like planning a vacation or a hiring a contractor to fix our broken central AC system because I'm traveling for work? Then you'll get lots of hugs and kisses.

[DannyUk2017]

If she likes bossing around then She should look for a simp, and also She should become the Provider, but she has to think "deep" before making this choice, as all "she wants" is NOT SHORT TERM! 😉

[Asker]

Well relationships are a two way street. I'm not sure why a partner has to be a simp especially if she's wanting to take on the role of taking charge and finds a partner who likes a woman who is in charge. It's like any other relationship out there, give and take and finding balance that works for you.

[DannyUk2017]

Well not many think the way You described on here now, so that's why my answer. You can tell the difference between give and take, many of them cannot so...🤷‍♂️

[ProbablyClueless]

It certain can be! Nothing is sexier than someone who knows what they want and can communicate it in a firm, appropriate, and respectful fashion.

[serious]

Yes but only if it is in a loving and caring way and not in a dominating way.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I'm a go with the flow kind of person.

[Anonymous]

For me it is for sure, not sure if I could let go though, it is in my nature to lead, but maybe would feel nice for once

[Nikki1989]

Take charge of what?

[Asker]

Whatever you feel it means to you.

[In_Trance]

It's all about balance

[Asker]

Very true. People can be happy in all sorts of situations that other people or couples could never deal with and be happy.

[jahaims]

Unhealed females act masculine

[Dorothy90]

Yes but that if I date another woman.

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

wdym with ”take charge”?

[Anonymous]

That's vague.

[slatyb]

Take charge of what?

[Asker]

Whatever you feel it means to you.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I always prefer dominant women.

[MasterKS]

Yes they do.