What does it mean when he says i’m not looking for anything and i’m still working on myself?

[Symone99]

I met, my trainer on a dating app and boom now he’s my trainer. I waited about a month or so in to shoot my shot and he said he’s not looking for anything right now. Which I thought was confusing since he liked me first on the dating app and I also know he hasn’t been doing the best with his mental state and he had some family issues going on. Everyone is telling me to stop talking to him since he doesn’t seem professional anymore with our relationship and that he clearly doesn’t know what he wants

[RHK36]

It means even though he doesn't know what he wants yet, it's clear to him that he doesn't want you or he would have done something already. The fact that he's training you at the gym and not in the bedroom should be proof enough. Don't be thirsty and move on.

[slatyb]

It means you shouldn't waste your time if you have any desire for a permanent relationship this decade.

[Nikki1989]

One of the many excuses the modern male uses when he doesn't have has what it takes for a serious relationnship. Move on; you probably have dodged a gigantic bullet.

[Emmytexrex]

That means he is not in an emotional state for relationship for now

[itsannalee]

He is not interested to you.