How would you react to finding out your partner had sexy chats with an AI?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You finally found your perfect partner! They’re everything you could ever want and then some! But one day you come across their phone and find strangely erotic messages to a chatbot they’ve designed after a fictional character. How do you react?

I’m disgusted, I leave them. It’s like cheating.

I’m uncomfortable but accept that this is just a fantasy

It’s not real, I don’t really care

I do the same thing! No worries there

[TheDraconianJester]

I'm between the options of accepting it because it's just fantasy, but I'll be uncomfortable, but I will also accept it. It really depends on what the sexy chats consist of.

I'd rather have my partner fantasize getting sexy with an AI programmed to act like a giant orc woman than a suspiciously minor-looking character who is programmed to also act like a minor.
As someone who RPs with AI when I'm bored (Not entirely NSFW, just in general), I don't think it's a huge issue as long as it's mostly healthy (that my partner isn't becoming emotionally or mentally dependent on the AI) and that the texts themselves are in some way moral. At the end of the day, it's just a machine spitting out what it thinks might give the user a positive reaction. Until AI starts thinking and acting freely, I won't consider it cheating.

Overall, I'd rather have my partner have weird sexy chats/rp with an AI than with a real person. Because THAT would be an absolute deal breaker with no second chances. On the plus side, we could talk about our stories and funny moments we had with the AI, which we could bond over and discover more things about each other.

[emeraldsaphire]

Lol my husband got into that back when AI was super trendy. He's a big tech guy XDDD I don't really care, he looks at porn, and I mean we are borderline poly, so this is really not an issue.

[Cormac995]

Honestly if you think about it it's actually the most ethical kind of porn if you're dating. Think about it. You're not role playing with another person, you're not watching porn of other woman you're just typing to a robot. Besides not everyone has the free time to have sex every time they want to and sometimes wanks are necessary. I personally use the bots to run solo DnD roleplay campaigns. Once you figure out how they work you can have a lot of fun with the bots. I'm currently doing one where I'm in a post ampholytic wasteland living as a roaming mercenary. It's kind of like the Wasteland games where I'm being a kind of wasteland gunslinger with a six shooter and Winchester rifle. Yes, I've beaten fallout new Vegas multiple times and fuck you Todd Howard for your shit TV show that ruined the cannon of the best fallout because you're a petty jealous bitch.

[Cormac995]

Typo *Apocalypse not ampholytic

[Orion84]

I'd probably just laugh at them, because really? They're getting frisky with Skynet?

Then I'd make fun of them for it, which would lead to us breaking up, at which point I don't feel bad, because she wants to sit on Hal 9000's face.

[Natasha1995]

If it's just a fantasy, I wouldn't make a scene. But I'd be left with one big question: what's lacking in our relationship that he feels the need to talk to an AI bot about sex?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't think it could be much of a surprise, I think I would be aware of her adventures before I consider her as the perfect lover.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

So, within these parameters, depending on the rest of her personality/character/story, depending on how she looks at what she's doing and why then... My reaction could range from relaxed curiosity to okthxbye?

[Ironco]

Me personally, I wouldn't care. It's just a machine\ computer program.

No different if she is using a vibrator. Wouldn't care.

[Ayaan00001]

Become his AI or anything

[Paige90]

He is weird