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I matched with this guy back in 2023, but we didn't really talk and now 2 years later we matched again and decided to meet up. I've had coincidences where if some guy isn't right for me or if smth wrong is about to happen i get gastric stomach pains. I know it sounds stupid but I did get checked with the doc and my reports were normal. Fast forward to meeting this guy, I had the same pains right when our food came. Later when we went to my campus we made out and he started getting touchy and sort of reaching third base right away without taking it slow. It did make me uncomfortable but he also managed to turn me on, i later said we should go and next time meet at mine so that I could get us out of there and I could go home. He walked me home as well. After that I contemplated if I wanted to bring him over but given what I am going through in life rn with friends and mental health I decided not to. He even asked me if I wanted to come hookup at his with like an hrs notice which I said no to cause i was busy. We still text but its sorta dry on my end. He asked me today if I wanted to go out this weekend and i asked him where and he said probably the park that we couldnt go to on our first date. For now i told him we will see cause I need some time to myself but I dont know what exactly to make of him wanting to hangout.
Went on a date with this guy who seems more friends with benefits vibes and now still wants to hangout?
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It sounds like this guy is primarily interested in a casual/friends with benefits situation, given how quickly he escalated physically and his focus on hookups. Your gut reaction (literally) and discomfort are valid signs that this might not align with what you truly want or need right now, especially while dealing with mental health and friend issues.
If you’re unsure, take your time—don’t feel pressured to meet up. You can keep things vague or politely decline if you’re not feeling it. Prioritize your well-being, and only engage if you’re genuinely comfortable with something casual. If you’re hoping for more than friends with benefits, he may not be the right fit.
Always always, Trust your instincts!
friends with benefits is best.