Why should people date YOU🤔?

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HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

It's always hard to sell yourself without sounding arrogant.

I'm honestly not the best guy to date due to my financial situation currently and I can't promise to signal financial stability in the near future. But if a girl doesn't care about that, (which is next to impossible in this day and age to find), then I'm honest, trustworthy, loyal, easy going, compassionate, patient, thoughtful, and intellectually curious.

I'm fully transparent with my partners and give them fingerprint access to my phone at all times. I have nothing to hide in that regard. I always let my partners know where I am and who I'm with. If I change locations and people that I'm with, I update them. I never want my partner feeling jealous, so I do everything in my power to make them not feel that way. I'm also usually pretty perceptive of how my partner's feeling.

I workout consistently with calisthenics and I'm proud of what I'm capable of physically and how it's reflected in my body definition (I'd hope my partner can appreciate that too).

I'm dependable and always up to help my partner. I like to cook and honestly don't mind doing all the cooking. But I also love cooking with my partner. I help out with cleaning. I'm the type that doesn't feel comfortable if my partner's doing all the work with that.

I don't think I'm boring to talk to. I can't say I'm the funniest dude on the block, but I crack jokes here and there that get a laugh from my partner sometimes. I consider myself pretty goofy when I'm comfortable with someone and know they aren't judging me negatively for it.

And I'd say I'm super supportive of whatever they want to do in life, especially if they want to start a passion project or business of their own. I try to help them ideate and build the confidence they need to pursue that passion. I couldn't care less if they worked at McDonald's or whatever as long as they're happy being with me.

I'm pretty adventurous. Not with cities, but more so with nature. If there's anything to do with nature.

Anyways, I know that was more than a little long, so sorry about that. More thoughts kept coming to mind 😂 Pretty sure I'm not done even now, but if I continue, it won't end.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Well this is a tough question. Because I like myself. And what I would say would sound like im bragging or something

I would say first become friends and then they could make up there own minds.

All I will say because I am me im different than most men I see and feel things deeper than most guys I like being me and not afraid of showing it.

All I can say is there are many reason all positive and good reasons. .

I guess the best answer would be look at all my question I've answered. They would paint a true picture of me and who I am.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Bc I'm fucking amazing...

(Kidding.) I guess these:

I bring authenticity to my relationships. I don't want to get all caught up in peripheral bs (body count and exes and "the past").
I don't care for anything shady, so I don't offer anything shady.
I listen. I want to know what my guy is thinking and feeling.
I'm affectionate and sensual in a direct way. I want to know what you want and I'll tell you what I want.
I'm very energetic. I bring energy into the other person's life and feed off the positive energy they offer as well. It makes for a mutually positive and exciting experience.

I suppose there's more... but you'd have to ask a guy I've been with.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

@lilbigpotato  As I've been with my husband for the past thirteen years... I've no need to worry about anyone wanting to date me... Thank you.

Summeroflove · Answer

Well someone who isn’t compatible with me would have a very hard time lol. I just say… find the right person. Think quality over quantity. There are people who can choose from lots of people… but lots of people are also turds.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

They shouldn't, and couldn't, because I am married and very faithful.

Ask105 · Answer

I don’t even care anymore most men sell them selves to an illusion of a woman thats not even worth it who cares in the first place and that she already has ideas of the perfect man she created in his head and once he done selling himself if he can not keep up with the act she's gone men just want loyalty and love and respect get a Dog gentleman!!! love women while they’re around but its an illusion women our about me me me me me its like jeez gotta be yourself chasing validation so unhealthy

Staximus · Answer

My friends say I am half fat ninja and half fat angel, because I'm kind of good at fighting and real good at saving people's asses. But I'm not real fat, just kind of fat. And kind bald, lazy, crazy, and grumpy. I can fix almost anything and can cook pretty good. I'm loyal and loving and don't play stupid games. I only smoke weed and drink, don't do any hard drugs. I made good hot sauce. I live pretty high off the hog for a guy that doesn't make a lot of money, because I'm not in debt and don't spend my money on a bunch of stupid shit.

Twalli · Answer

According to them I treat them extremely well. This is when I'm not dating them. Multiple girls have told me that they wish their boyfriend treated them the same way I treated them. I was not trying to be their boyfriend, but I still treated them very well.

Dennisjf12 · Answer

I am not a person that date's a lot I have only a few select friends, I been married for 37 year's & never cheated on my wife & I am not happy in this marriage & I have found a young woman 1/2 my age that wants me to move in with her & we have been talking for years. But I will never get married again. Dennis

WhiteThought · Answer

Don't know. I don't try to sell myself. I am who I am

I'm very straight forward. I don't do small talk. I don't say things just to make someone feel better. I move when I want to move, and I don't care what any woman has to say about it. I don't tolerate masculinity in a woman. I am not gentle when I speak. I don't play games, so I don't care what her friends do or what she has been taught or told to do, I will not tolerate that.

Iron_Man · Answer

Because I’m the American dream I bring everything to the table financially stability, loyalty I’m a worldwide traveler and speak from the heart I will give you protection. I am, caring, and understanding and full ofexcitement and Adventure Plus, I have a house to put a roof over your head

Ironco · Answer

I'm a widower, so most women want to replace my wife or have me forget her.

So there is that issue.

But to date me, I offer financial stability, I'm funny, I'm a giver.

But I'm an old moody German, I'm set in my way, and it's hard to find a lady my age who is single.

So, I just keep looking and finding my way through life alone, but I'm good with it. If it happens it happens.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm an honest, caring, empathetic person who takes pleasure in making my SO feel loved and valued, and the feedback I have received is that I'm not ugly. And I earn a pretty nice salary. I've been married for 7 years, but I still "date" my wife. That's all really.

slatyb · Answer

Because I'm funny and kind and attractive and sexy. You might not see the last thing immediately, but women who talk to me for an hour seem to think so.

WonderingManII · Answer

I wish some girls would want date me. But when I try to look at it logically, I don't think I'm worth dating. My not attractive enough, and I'm not smart enough. I also have some other issues too.

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

I'm an amazing baker, good cook, big boobs, hard worker and most if the time im a very level headed nice person

Anonymous · Answer

They shouldn't. I am socialy blind and unpopular. I also can't stand hypocrisy or irationality (i. e. women).

I'll be fine though. I own my house and earn more than enough to build a healthy retirement fund. With AI advancing as fast as it is I won't be lonely.
It's just a shame I didn't turn out to be gay really. Would have made thing so much simpler.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

They shouldn't especially since I wouldn't want to date them.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Good luck with that. I have been happily married for 15 years.

Bricealan · Answer

@lilbigpotato So subjective. Really difficult to answer in a proper way.

YourExLover69 · Answer

Because I'm honest, straightforward, romantic, simple and easy to be pleased, chatty, single and have no kids 🫣💕

Makeushiver · Answer

Because I will give them the most intense orgasms they might have the good fortune to experience

DJB72 · Answer

I'm not a cereal killer. Your cornflakes are safe with me

LiamJHayden · Answer

Honestly women shouldn't. I'm a great friend but I'm a judgmental <BLEEP> in romantic relationships.

stratford · Answer

I wouldn't recommend dating me. I'm a certified loser.

Jeff51 · Answer

Haven't had a date in 15 years but if someone should ask it. Ide might say I'm kind hearted, good listener. Maybe for starters.

BruceWayne32123 · Answer

Because my tongue is always available. And that includes for the backdoor

Anonymous · Answer

If you have to ask that question then you are lazy and would be wasting my time. Keep it moving.

dougeats · Answer

Because I'm chill and treat a woman with respect also told I'm pretty good looking lol

TheWombRaider · Answer

Well girls who gave me because I fuck on the first date

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Boyish good looks at age 72, Menas-level intelligence, decency, loyalty.

Jerre · Answer

Because I can help them have unbelievably good sex, make them have many orgasms

Ermmhey · Answer

I think they'll find that out after they date me cause everyone is gonna say good things about themselves. So time will tell.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Thats a really good question and I dont know how to answer that

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, no girl ever wanted to date me.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Lol. I don’t give a shit about dating anyone

Phoenix98 · Answer

Lol these days I don't know.

exitseven · Answer

They shouldn't because I am married

Ray123456 · Answer

Because I have a big cock jk

UnwantedScorpio · Answer

I don’t play games

msc545 · Answer

It's better than waking up alone...

Anonymous · Answer

Because I'll fuck you so hard

Chthou95 · Answer

They shouldn't.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I don't know. Who said they should? Lol

shortster · Answer

I am awesome.

qwerty2469 · Answer

I have 11 bitcoin

milkmustache · Answer

I can't answer that

Mayorofbobaville · Answer

I'm awesome

someone_02 · Answer

Because of companies

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