Is this a cold hearted thing to do?

[Anonymous]

I caught my boyfriend looking at other women while we are on our dates. Besides this, he just doesn't seem very obsessed or committed to me. He has been canceling dates due to being busy etc. I'm just not impressed by him nor do I see a future between us.

But I do know he has a very cute handsome tall coworker from his job. I am thinking about going through his facebook so I can message this cute guy. If he says yes, then I will dump my boyfriend.

[ohsheeT]

Well I guess this is what they mean by

An eye for an eye.

That's crazy him looking at other women when he's on a date with you

That is one of the boldest moves. I've ever seen or heard about it

I think you should do what ever makes you happy. But remember by getting with somebody that he works with is going to cause drama. And that's the last thing in your world that anybody should go after a new guy

That way, you're not all 3 tied together. Still and way or another

You sound very interesting. You should just find the new guy start over

[Asker]

He doesn't need to know I messaged his coworker before I broke up with him. He might as well never find out I am dating his coworker

[ohsheeT]

Lol life's not that easy. I'm sure some day he will find out. But it is what it is gave him a lifetime opportunity, and you can see what he did with it. So I say more power to you and weather he finds out or not it's not his business

[StevenMcGarrett]

Good plan. Cold hearted but all's fair in love and war

[silvermoon84]

Dump your boyfriend first. You two don’t seem to have much interest in each other anymore so it’s probably best, but end the relationship first. Otherwise that’s considered cheating. I’m sure you’re better than that, so don’t do. And do it face to face because a break up over the phone or through text is rotten, and very hurtful to the other person. You’re not cold hearted to leave him but do it the graceful and respectful way.

[Ask105]

Break up with your boyfriend before you start cheating

[Asker]

he deserves to be cheated on

[Ask105]

I wouldn’t even care if you my girlfriend id just like be like what a surprise throw a peace sign you never see me again i works as a firefighter all i need is my brothers im often very busy also you make me want to take a nap

[Ask105]

He’s not missing out on not being with you regardless i can already tell

[Wuai201]

Might as well break up
y'all are both looking at other people now

[Raymonddodo2]

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[Wuai201]

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[Anonymous]

Don’t do that trifling bullshit. Trying to secure another situation before ending this one, you’re a clown for that. End this relationship FIRST.

[Asker]

He doesn't need to know I messaged his coworker before I broke up with him. He might as well never find out I am dating his coworker

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you feel like that’s ok? That’s not cold hearted it’s just flat out cheating. Just leave him if you aren’t happy. Karma would really kick your ass for this.

[Asker]

he's not that into me anyways.

[Opinion Owner]

So why not break up with him?

[Asker]

Because its nice to have someone there to vent to, have sex with, cuddle with

[Opinion Owner]

So you’d rather cheat than be alone? Pathetic.

[Asker]

Do you think any girl would want to be with a guy who is disrespectful?

If you get cheated on, you deserve it

[Opinion Owner]

No, she would just be single, obviously. Not stick around with the guy because she codependent as shit and can’t stand being alone. No one deserves to get cheated on, not even you as much as you wanna justify it.

[Asker]

@opinionowner

if you don't respect your girlfriend, you can't expect her to respect you.

[Opinion Owner]

Why’d you ask whether or not this was cold hearted if you’re going to argue back and forth about why you think it’s not? I said this surpasses cold hearted, it’s cheating, and you wanna sit here and argue back and forth about why you think it’s not. Cheat on your man if you want to, it’s not my situation to worry about.

[Asker]

@opinionowner

I don't care.. ms. goody two shoes.

[Opinion Owner]

You don’t care about what?

[Anonymous]

If you don't like this person, end the relationship.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like everybody wins here. Go ahead.👍

[Anonymous]

Okay you troll

[In_Trance]

Yeah